He also has a 5 year old boy and I love him but dont know what to do? I am 20 live in a different state on my own and take care of myself, i know my moms opinion shouldnt really matter but shes one of those moms who knows the right answer to everything. pls help me to tell her
2007-02-28 02:42:02 · 13 answers · asked by rusty_wallacefan_2 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Theater & Acting
okay i know how hard it must be for you to tell your mother. but i think that you should tell her and let her say what she wants. it would matter but think about this: if you want to be with that person because that person makes you happy then be with that person, and everything else won't matter. sometimes in life you have to sacrifice a few things for the one you love.
2007-02-28 02:48:49 · answer #1 · answered by sexypinklips053004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just mention it in conversation. You are an adult now, you have the right to make your own choices, decisons and mistakes if need be. Your mom will keep her opinion no matter what most likely, but I don't see how this should affect your decision; the same problem occurs in interracial relationships. What matters is how the man treats you and makes you feel, not how others feel about you two as a couple. Time to grow up.
2007-02-28 02:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by Runa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. Why try to hide it. You are on your own making your own decisions and should be able to do what you want to do. You obviously love your mother and want to share with her your relationship and are hoping she will be happy for you. She may not think this is a good idea if this man is so much older than you and has a child already, but all you can do is tell her how you feel and let her know you wanted to share this with her and not be judged by her.
Good Luck.
2007-02-28 02:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by devilgal031948 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mom Will have an opinion and Will voice it because she loves you and cares what happens, but you are the only person who can live your life and face it you're GOING to do what you want any way. Just start out by saying, "Mom, I love you and just want you to know...
2007-02-28 02:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by SALSA 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should consult with your guy and ask him to help you out with this..... if he is serious about you, he should be willing to speak with her to prove to her that he is to be trusted, and that he cares about you... after all, he is 35 and should be able to do that .... I am surprised that you did not confide this to him .... you must tell things like this to your guy first .... after all, do you not want him to take good care of you? And, don't you think that things like this will tell you if it will work out for the two of you in the long run? If he can't handle it by his age, you are in for trouble.
You must ask him ... he is a man, and men really do know things, .....take some time together and wait for the right answers to come along.
Peace & Love
2007-02-28 02:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi, i'm a intense college instructor and characteristic been one for decades. I see many adolescents in simple terms like you who pick their freedom. in order that that you comprehend, you're 15 no longer 25. the adaptation is that your mind isn't completely developed yet. you could't make judgements that take in finished effects yet (no count number how a lot you imagine you could, you could't-you mind isn't bodily developed). Your mom is commonplace with this (plus MANY different issues in simple terms from her years in the international) and is attempting to guard you. it really is her job. She ought to save you probability-free. you've the means to communicate with your mom for you to get extra of what you want. Ask her gently to sit down and write up a plan with you on the topic of being out of the residing house. How a lot time would she sense tender with you being lengthy gone without contacting her? how can you tutor her you're sturdy? how can you construct trust with her? once you tutor her that you're to blame she will be in a position to locate ordinary strategies to enable pass a touch extra yet please comprehend your discern's job is in simple terms what she is doing. per chance you could thank her for being concerned a lot about you.
2016-12-05 01:40:31 · answer #6 · answered by bartow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to tell him, first and foremost. Love is a two way street. See where the relationship goes, tell your mother about him, but your 20, your not a minor living in her house.
2007-02-28 02:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by di12381 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's really none of her business who u want 2 date, because your an adult. Just say I'm in love with a guy and don't tell her his age.
2007-02-28 02:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This has nothing to do with theater or acting...
Beyond that... if you are really serious about him then you don't need to worry about your mom. Be upfront with her and force her to deal.
It's called growing up. Eventually your parents just aren't scary anymore.
2007-02-28 03:18:05 · answer #9 · answered by ashley b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you decide to tell her, be prepared to listen to her opinion. Also, say ya'll are dating... not "in love". It'll be easier for her to accept if she thinks it's not very serious yet.
Good Luck!
2007-02-28 02:54:43 · answer #10 · answered by *Just Married* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋