Have you ever cheated on your b/f or husband?

Question

Why?

Answer 1

Yes, on my first husband. We had been married 8 years, two boys, and he was NEVER home. He lived as though he were single. Softball, volleyball, surfing, and racquetball. He was actually the State Racquetball Champ in Hawaii one year, so that tells you how much he played! The only time I usually saw him, was after 10:00 or 11:00 pm. I was so very lonely. I met this guy, who was also married, and we had an affair for almost a year. He saved me. He raised my self-esteem, made me feel special and loved, and made me realize I could so much more with my life. I eventually left my husband, and my boyfriend, moved to Tennessee, and have never regretted anything.

Answer 2

Nope never, However my husband was the " whore" in the relationship. I worked my *** off to provide him and the children with a good life,

He didnt want to work so he didnt, but got high and had sex while i was at work. He dated way more during the marriage then he did before.

He wouldnt clean or cook either.

Out of 15 years he worked a max of 3 whole months. The drugs were one reason he had to go. the cheating and abuse was the other 2.

Answer 3

Yes. I cheated on my husband. He was deployed with the military for 18 months and I made a very poor choice one drunken night out at the bar with my friends. Not that it was right, but I was just very lonely at the time and I let my lonliness and booze get the better of me.

Answer 4

No, this is one of those questions that you should ask yourself. If you have the need to cheat on your b/f or hubby then why are you with him. Have you talked to him and told him that you aren't getting emotionally what you need out of the relationship that you want this? If you have and it hasn't changed it's time you change yourself in the current relationship. My grandparents have lived on the saying "If you don't love me don't hurt me by cheating on me just tell me you aren't in love with me and want something different" In life we here all about the guy/girl whom is distraught about the ex cheating on him or her and how it hurt. Why hurt the one you are with. END it for your good and the feelings involved. If you are brave enough to want to cheat and you do and you get hurt that's your own fault for putting yourself out there like that. I love my fiance with all my heart and as human nature we all are going to look it's only human. No touching is not on our books I can say I love him and only want him. If your sex life is good then you shouldn't have want to cheat. Hope that answered your question.

Answer 5

Never. I was married for 12 1/2 yrs. and never entertained the thought. Even after I had old boyfriends from before I met my husband contact me or had clients and coworkers from work hitting on me. My vows were extremely important to me, as was my family and my self-respect.
My ex on the other hand couldn't keep it in his pants whenever anything remotely resembling a willing female walked by.

Answer 6

No. I love my husband so I would never cheat. I never cheated on boyfriend's either, I am a faithful person.

Answer 7

i cheated on a boyfriend a long time ago. I did it because he was physically/emotionally abusive and he was cheating on me, so i thought i would do the same.

Answer 8

I did and it was the MOST stupid thing i ever did. I have regretted my stupidity and it destroyed a good man a marriage and a family. DON'T DO IT.

Answer 9

Never, and haven't even been tempted to. Happily married for 19+ years....

Answer 10

I thought about it, but then I realized that if I was thinking about it, I should really just leave.

Why did I think about it? Because he would never talk with me. He was distant. I was numb.