I've already had a girl for him before discovering he had another woman {with two kids}. His excuse was that he loved me and could not afford to lose me. Please note that we had been dating for some years before I broke up with him and got back again. I accepted but now, I don't know if I should continue with him or not.
2007-02-28 02:14:11 · 10 answers · asked by Flaky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like you already know the answer.
2007-02-28 02:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by MJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whoa. i guess im not the right person to answer this question, because i have strong views on relationships. Ok, so if this is long, im sorry! first off, why would you wanna put your whole HEART (something very precious & valuable) into someone who isn't going to give you their all? Second off, if a guy (IN ANY SITUATION)... for any moment... shows that he is deciding between you and another girl - you need to be out. because in the long run, when he gets YOU, he'll get tired of it, and decide to move on to the other girl. its just how guys are. he's playing you and its not right. there are so many guys out there who will LOVE YOU FOR YOU... and care about ONLY you. you dont need to be putting your everything into a guy who isn't giving you all of them. 1.its wrong and 2. its UNHEALTHY. and lastly... who is this hurting? noone but YOUUUUU. so why do you need to put yourself through something that you know doesn't need to happen. you dont know me - so this is probably weird taking all this advice from me. i have so many friends that go through this stuffand its just pointless to me. just be smart - and honestly... not to sound selffish of what not... but in this situation YOU NEED TO THINK ABOUT YOURSELF :) hope i could help. and if you need anything, just let me know!
2007-02-28 10:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by steph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the situation that you're talking about the reason why you are questioning whether you should be with him or not? If so, you must still have some trust issues with him. I wouldn't stay with anyone that I couldn't trust, especially someone who lied to me the way he did to you.
2007-02-28 10:21:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's still involved with the other woman, then you need to call it quits. Follow your instincts on this one; you'll know if he's being honest with you about the other woman. Generally, if you have doubts, he's still involved. Best of luck!
2007-02-28 10:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has never loved you and he gets all the breaks unless you break this off and start asking for child support.
2007-02-28 10:23:02 · answer #5 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He played you for a fool. Don't have babies with men you aren't married to. He will just find another and another.
2007-02-28 10:19:16 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're kidding, right? How could you even consider keeping this guy?
2007-02-28 10:18:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes or No. ( those are answers) Would your life be better without him?
2007-02-28 10:32:36 · answer #8 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart
2007-02-28 13:38:38 · answer #9 · answered by kevo m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean? "I've already had a girl for him "
I wouldnt see him how can you trust him?
2007-02-28 10:18:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋