Women how do you know when a?

Question

man has your "heart". We often place labels on relationships such as married or engaged. But I believe women that are engaged and married, often times the husband or fiance does not have their "heart' and secretly another man has their heart. That other man could be in past or present. But for various reasons a "formal" relationship does not manifest between the two.

I guess what I am asking is: Can a man actually "have" a woman's or women's heart without ever knowing it. And do you have to be in a relationship with a woman for you to "have" that woman? What are your thoughts?

Jade....very deep for the male gender...lmao

Answer 1

Well you just made me cry...God I wish some man had my heart. What a nice question or statement. I don't think you should be in a relationship to have this...its all about infactuation and the power of it...it can work for more than one

Answer 2

I know when a man has my heart when I think he is perfect in everyway. When I am hurting the only person that can console me is him. When I am willing to do anything for him despite my beliefs, when I can smell him even when he's not around, when I am willing to have as many babies as his heart desire. When I can feel his pain just by watching him, when I touch him (i.e.,shake his hand, etc.) I feel a tingle in my stomach. I know that man has my heart. To answer your question YES, a man can have a woman's or women's heart without ever knowing it. And NO you do not have to be in a relationship with a woman to have that woman. I know that because a man has my heart and he is not my husband. He is my first love and for one reason or another I can never get my heart back from him. He is married with children just as I am but I can never stop thinking about him. When the days are perfect, warm, sunny, and love music is playing, he is the only man in my thoughts, when it's dark, cold and wet outside. He is the only man I want to cuddle with. We have a child together and despite the pain I went through, the heart ache, I would do it all over if I know I get to keep him the second time around. As for as my husband I love him, we have a good life together but he is just simply not the man I am in love with. However, I would never cheat on him, never leave him for another man including my true love. Therefore, I will never have the man in my heart. Sad but true.

Answer 3

OK, the answer to this question is plain and simple. If a man has a woman's heart(in the Jeffery Dahmer sense) then it would be clearly obvious. In this instance, if the man had her heart and DIDN'T know it, he'd have to be a little dim witted.
I don't know if that constitutes a "formal" relationship or what kind of relationship you would call that(maybe..lunch or dinner?). So does he have to be in a relationship to "have" her, I guess that is debatable. But at this point all this sicko wants is a fork, a knife, and a plate.
Hope that helps!!!

Answer 4

Yes, I am personally very deep writer, but in this case you win the deepest. My head spinning and my eyes are going up and down i will faint in a minute.

Heart or no heart, it never stays forever the same.
One day you believe a heart is the bit of that husband, but one day you realise that your heart is not for him, since the husband may be the mumm'ys boy. In other words, you can fall in love, but also fall out of love, in whatever circumstances you once felt the deepest heart for that person.

You fall in love
You fall out of love.

Even old heart that you had in your teenage years, one day you come accross that person, look into his eyes, and talk to him, and realise that the heart you felt for him was NOTHING. Because you have both have grown up and changed your own perspective in every little thing that life provides.

Are you married? I am jelouse of your wife to have such deep thinking man...

Answer 5

This is a very deep question!!!! A woman's heart is often given whole heartily and you can tell in the subtle things that she does. in how much attention she gives you, in the little things that she does for you and also in her kiss. You are very deep for the male gender, a women should be lucky if she gives you her heart. Love and Live and keep loving!!!!!!!

Answer 6

I think a woman can be infatuated with someone and they not know, but I don't think they can have their "heart" or love if that is what you are asking. Plus what does it really matter if someone has a woman's heart? If they are not in a relationship together, then it is just a fantasy on her part and not reality.

Answer 7

You are right. A man can have a womens heart and not no it and it doesn't have to be the man they are with. When someone is inlove with two people, they love one person but deep down they have love for another.

Answer 8

When a man has his heart set on a woman, that means, she has made him happy, she trusts him, she will help him in ways that only she can do, she will stand by his side, support him emotionally, help him up when he is down! This is what makes a man realize that his heart belongs to someone else and he would rather die himself than have her die.

Answer 9

Sure cant see why not, anyhing is possible. If you think you my have someones heart, it'd be worth the risk. If it fails you haven't lost anyway cos they were already with someone else, but you never know maybe you just do have their heart and that the push that they've been waiting for!

Answer 10

very few men have ever captured my heart. yes, i would have to be in a relationship with that person for them to ever capture it to begin with.

if a woman doesn't want you to ever find out someone else has captured her heart (as you put it), you will never know because women are very good at hiding things. only she will know.