im hurting so much. ive never felt like this before about anybody. im deeply in love with her and could'nt bare to lose her. please help.
2007-02-28 02:09:13 · 14 answers · asked by broken b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is usually what people say when the spark has gone. She doesn't love you anymore in the way that she used to, she loves you like a friend.
Pick yourself up, dust yourself down and move on, it's hard I know, but you will find love again. Good luck
2007-02-28 02:14:11 · answer #1 · answered by Nickynackynoo 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sadly mate it sounds as though she doesn't want to hurt you so she's saying all the right things. Let her go and if she loves you she will come get you! You need her to be completely honest with you and get her to explain her feelings, but if your not together now, that's a fairly good indication that she doesn't know what she wants. Best of luck though, I'm sure with a bit of communication it will work out somehow.
2007-02-28 02:16:09 · answer #2 · answered by lazy lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
load of twaddle, once they start with that old chestnut they need to be reminded of how lucky they are, i wasted 5 years with a bloke who made me feel second rate, convinced myself i knew best, however, some folk are shallow and need their head testing,
some don't know a good thing when they see/have it
be strong my friend and seek new people/places/events touch feel and taste all life has to offer,
keep your dignity and hold your head up high, forget her, and if its meant to be , she will come and seek you out, my ex-fella did, but it was too late i found someone much better, and only after the fact did i realise what i wanted and needed, not what i was getting
great things are just around the corner
i can feel it in me bones
good luck my friend.......
be glorious
2007-02-28 02:18:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is not sure she is in love with you but feels she loves you is a better start than you think. Give it time, she may fall in love with you later. Real love takes time to flourish and it must come with free will. Your relationship with her would be best to be based on mutual respect, friendship, and trust. All these things can lead to bigger and better things. Don't give up hope to win the one you love. Best of luck to you!
2007-02-28 02:17:50 · answer #4 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in love and loving someone is totally different...I know you are hurting but atleast she was being honest. I can easily tell you I love three other men that have been in my life before my husband but I love and am in love with my husband. Even though your heart is crushed dont give up and find the one that will love you as well as fall in love with you. Dont hate her for giving you a chance at truley finding the one...and remember we (woman)are complicated.
2007-02-28 02:17:37 · answer #5 · answered by E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is strange as we always hurt the one we love the most.
just keep a stiff upper lip and be brave as most love goes away after the marriage ceremony and just after the honeymoon starts..then you realize what a goose you were and say what the heck did we just get into? life is nof fair...and love is even worse..just suck it up and go on with the daily grind of living
2007-02-28 02:15:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's trying to break it to you gently that it's over.
Move on. You WILL get over this. Would you really
want to stay with her knowing your feelings are not
reciprocated.
Good Luck.
2007-02-28 08:28:20 · answer #7 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand how u feel. love stems from the heart and since you don't believe she loves u, simply take her heart with you everywhere you go. with her heart in your hands u should be convinced she has no spare heart to think about any other person. take it easy boy.
2007-02-28 02:18:03 · answer #8 · answered by oshokhameye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is hard but try to keep yourself busy till the pain eases then when you are ready find someone who cant turn love on and off like a lamp.
2007-02-28 02:14:58 · answer #9 · answered by Thumbs down me now 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever asked her what you could do differently to make it work?
2007-02-28 03:24:34 · answer #10 · answered by KANGA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋