What approach would you advise me to take.?

Question

I am a 27yr old woman,i am married ,very pretty, dark and quite slim. I am very self conscious because i am very flat chested, more like a 32A. I cannot go out without wearing a padded bra, its crazy cos i find mself staring at other people's boobs and saying, God i wish had those! I have even discussed it with my husband who thinks i am silly. There was a day i told him i would like a boob job, maybe after childbearing and he simply looked at me and said "As long as you dont die in the process", i was hoping he would tell me not to even think about it.
I know i should love my body, but i honestly dont feel sexy and it makes me feel selfconscious all the time. What should i do? Forget it or....

Answer 1

Sweetie, don't worry about your breast size. You're wasting your time worrying about it. Honestly I NEVER heard of a guy whine about how girl's breast are too small.

Most guys usually notice girl's face first then her overall physical. If the girl is fit like you then they're usually hooked after that. They rarely look at your breast and try to decide if you're attractive based purely on size. Honestly I don't think any guys out there do this unless they have hardcore fetish for big breast which isn't exactly common.

I think your husband know you're insecure about it and basically fed up with hear you talk about it. I think he's playing along and hoping to get you stop talk about how small you're. Your talking about insecureness probably turn him off LOT more than anything else. Plus he wouldn't like you better or less if you get it enlarge either way so it's basicaly a waste of time and moneys.

Answer 2

Well I think we as women are never truly happy with ourselves, and if you fix this problem then whose to say you won't find another thing to fix ya know? I think that your breast size is perfect for your frame if you are very petite, could you imagine how unbalanced you would look with size C boobs!!!!! If you think you will never be happy then look into implants but do it for you and not your husband. It shouldn't be up to someone else to make you feel sexy, I know it's important to feel that your spouse find you attractive, but you should feel good about you too. Good Luck and I hope you find a happy resolution just for you.