What can you do to stop your wife getting her breasts made smaller ?

Question

Is there anything you can legally do about it.

it should be illegal anyway plus its a sin.

She never mentions backache and I did not say they were massive. She said they are too big for her body and she looks odd,that people make comments about them and that she would look better if they were smaller. I think they are perfect as they are but she will not listen.

Answer 1

I feel for you. My wife, who has no back pains, keeps bringing this up.

I tell her that first of all, it is sacrilegious.

And then I tell her if I'm going to be paying for a breast surgery, she'd better be talking enhancement.

She thinks I'm kidding.

But, unfortunately, there is nothing you can do to stop it.

Answer 2

Your question was reasonable until you asked about a legal route? Why would she even listen to you with such an attitude.

The best ways to try to convince her are to love her and be very romantic. Big breasts are cumbersome so do LOTS of housework to help her.

Take her to a lingerie shop and give her a lot of money to buy the best quality bras.

And if she is dragged down by these large breasts and she is depressed or hating the attention she gets...........you support her and help her through the surgery.

Answer 3

Honestly, think about why you don't want her to get them reduced. Is it because you are a "big tit" kinda guy, if so grow up and consider the health rammifications on your wife's condition. Extremely large breasts can cause all sorts of medical problems, including chronic pain and arthritis leading to more problems as she gets older. It is her body and the thought of you legally stopping something like that is ridiculous. Think before you act.

Answer 4

Believe it or not, breasts that are too large are not only uncomfortable to have, they can cause serious health problems later in life. If you believe that the sin is in having plastic surgery in the first place, perhaps you should think about it on the level of her health and not her appearance. Legally however there is nothing you can do.

Answer 5

Seriously, these aren't your breasts. Very large breasts tend to hurt the back and create dents in the shoulders called shoulder struts. But, I'm glad that all that is important to you are the size of her breasts and nothing else. Great husband.

Answer 6

Dann, if her breasts are causing her lots of back pain, shoulder pain, or neck pain, why not have them reduced to take the strain off. Sometimes bras alone are not enough. And, it's not like her breasts are going to be really small afterward. Talk with her about this and try to resolve the issue before anything is done. She will need you for support.

Answer 7

There is nothing you can do legally. It's her decision to do what ever she wants to her own body. She may not say anything about back aches but a reduction of breast mass will take a lot of strain off her back and she knows it. You should be supportive of her health and forget about your sexual desires.

Answer 8

You can't do anything legally that I have ever heard of but you may be able to persuade her with medical facts. The side effects and complications from a breast reduction are real and more common then the enlargements. But you may want to see it from her point of view. Extra large breast bring problems of their own. Back and neck pain, unwanted attention (and not only from men), and don't even get me started on trying to find clothes that fit.

Answer 9

Illegal? Are you freaking kidding? It's her body, for Pete's sake! Have you considered that if her breasts are too big they are probably making her suffer terrible back pain? How selfish and shallow are you! Poor thing... She should be married to somebody that really cares about her health and her decisions...

Answer 10

FIRSTLY, ABOUT THE NEW COMMENT YOU MADE ABOUT HER SAYING MAKING THEM SMALLER WOULD MAKE HER LOOK BETTER: THAT'S A RED FLAG SHE'S GOING TO SUCH LENGTHS TO IMPRESS OTHER PEOPLE (MAYBE NOT THE MOST LOYAL WIFE).

Also another answerer mentioned "breach of contract"; and this comes close. Yes, it's her body, but it was ALSO YOUR CHOICE TO MARRY HER and, long as you let her know her doing that send a message she's not being straight (and she doesn't respond or seem to care) you're being fair in having second thoughts about her.
In fact one powerful idea would be straight out telling her doing the reduction sends out a message to you (FROM HER TO YOU SAYING) "I don't care so much about pleasuring you anymore" and even "I don't care about you being happy, you're just a resource for work as I am for sex" in many ways, and she still does it....it's your right to pull out (for example, move toward divorce) just as much as it is hers to choose the surgery.

>> Sure some people can/will say you're superficial for wanting to, for example, get a divorce because of this but many women do the same thing to men once they can't keep their highly paying jobs (even if it's their bosses' prejudice and bullying, not their performance, that kills it).
Many women (likely a majority: it's human nature after all) place huge weight on what a man gives sexually and, if they supposedly can't fulfill it, start charging them financially to "make up for it". Women must remember they have a responsibility to pleasure men as well, though...so you owe it to each other the keep the kind of look that pleases the other person best. <<<

IF YOU ACTUALLY WANT TO CONVINCE HER NOT TO GET THE REDUCTION another thing that helps is to reduce the symptoms (such as back pain, shoulder pain). If she does crunches, aerobics of any sort, and keep a diet high on calcium, folate, and essential fatty acids (such as omega-3) and protein she's FAR more likely not to have the typical symptoms of over-sized breasts (which typically occur in women who are, often in several ways, in less than great shape and less than dedicated to satisfying their partners). But WHEN/IF YOU INTRODUCE THIS IDEA TO HER MAKE SURE YOU SAY YOU ARE DOING THE EXERCISES FIRST AND SHE SHOULD FOLLOW ALONG: THAT YOU FIGURE BOTH OF YOU ARE HAVING CERTAIN CRAMPS AND NEED TO GET IN SHAPE TO RESOLVE THEM AND YOU WANT TO SATISFY HER MORE.

She has her rights, you have yours...and you both need to make sure the other person's sexually satisfied (it's her responsibility but also equally as much yours): remind her it's a two-way street and yourself that you should be the best to her..back.