What should be done with disloyal husbands?

Answer 1

Simple If u r loyal to husband & dont wan to cheat with him.Follow him Anywhere he goes besides his office.Whenever u ll find he is doing wrong just sit in front of him dont get panic & stare with smile.
Do this repeatedly for sometimes he will fall on his feet in front of u.
If u wan cheat Have a Byfriend Younger Nonmarried Handsome May he will demand money.& roam around wid him Where ur husband goes.

Answer 2

Depends on what the disloyal husband did. If he cheated, then you should seriously get away for now. Prove to him that you don't need him & see how he responds. If he loves you, he'll come crawling back. But you gotta set a guard up so he can't continue to hurt you. I don't believe in divorce, but it depends ont he situation at hand. If he is lieing to you, then it makes you wonder what else he is lieing about, right? Talk to him, open up to him, & speak your mind. Do not be afraid to tell him what you are feeling. Also, give him altermatums (probably spelt that wrong). Tell him if he doesn't start doing this then you will leave or whatever it is that you gotta say. If you want him & he wants you, it'll work out in the end. But really look at the situation before you do anything grastic.

Answer 3

First try to find out the reason for his disloyalty. Perhaps, you yourself may be the cause of it--not supportive,always accusing him,always criticising him,always fighting with him etc, etc, etc.....
If you can identify it,yourself than well and good otherwise confront him directly to find it out.Whoever is the cause between the 2 of you, try to sort it out between yourselves by direct talk. Straightaway,divorcing him or being disloyal yourself does not solve the problem especially if you already have kids.They are going to be affected the most,the effect of which they may manifest in later life.Two Wrongs do not make a Right.
Of course, if things still do not improve, you might have to take the extreme step.

Answer 4

This is one of those if it was cheating then you need to check your heart and feelings. Once a person cheats the second time will be easier. You should understand that if you have done all you can then it's over. If you should think that you want to stay in the relationship it's going to be a LONG road to rebuilding trust. I say if your heart is in it by all means stay in the relationship. If this is something else like he told something to some one etc then maybe this is a trust issue that was broken when asking a question details help.

Answer 5

You may want to add some more information regarding what your husband did to bring you to say he is disloyal, as it isn't known if he is sexually disloyal or disloyal in some other way. I will assume that he was sexually disloyal. There are some choices you may want to consider If your husband had a sexual affair with someone other than you. Will you accept him back and have sexual relations with him? Were your answer to be no, you may want to consider divorcing him. Were your answer to be yes, will you and he be honest with each other and work together to hold your marriage together? Were your husband to want to continue having the sexual affair with someone other than you, you do not have a marriage, and it is best for you to move on with your life and divorce him. Were you to tell him you want a divorce, he will possibly make a promise to you that he will never have an affair again. Don't believe him, as he will continue to have an affair, only next time he will be more careful and not give any signs to you that he is having an affair. A divorce is difficult on both parties, and were you to both want to try and save your marriage, I suggest that you both see a marriage counselor together and learn what you both will have to do to save your marriage. Were just one of you wanting to see a marriage counselor, you will not be able to save your marriage. Remember that you can not change him, only he can change himself for himself and by himself and for your marriage. The same holds true for you, he can't change you, only you can change yourself for yourself and by yourself and for your marriage. Good luck to both of you as you work through this difficult time in your marriage.

Answer 6

Funny listening to all the complaints about cheating hubsands and wives (but mostly cheating husbands). Nobody wants to share the responsibility for the cheating. Yes we focus on the sexual asspect of it. But more times than not, cheating occurs because there is something lacking in your relationship. Be it fun, excitement, thrills, chills, or just getting the attention we all crave. So the bottom line is that if you're not honoring your marriage vows to honor, love, and cherish your spouse....then don't get upset when they don't either and find comfort in the arms of somebody else! There are no excuses for cheating! But spare me the shock and awe routine when the spouce you've refused to be intimate with for the last several months finds somebody who will.

Answer 7

Personally - I don't know if the death penalty would be good enough. I think there should be stricter ramifications for cheating spouses - no fault divorces should be done away with as they really only protect the husband and most of his assets in most cases. If a man had to contemplate losing everything he had for cheating, it would either result in less infidelity or more homocides.

Answer 8

A marriage is a sacred institution, it involves the lives of so many innocent people especially children, etc. Do you seriously think people here can give you good advice if you ask a simple one line question? Most people have told you to leave him, can you honestly tell me that you will be able to leave him just like that? I urge you to try your best to salvage your marriage. However, don't force yourself to be trapped in an abusive or bad marriage.

Answer 9

Be loyal ignoring his disloyalty. Continue marital life with patience. Something is better than nothing. Time will change the situation. Remarriage of a divorced woman is very difficult if not impossible. Remarriage of her former husband is no such difficult.

Answer 10

The same as should be done with disloyal wives. Use your imagination.