I have friends but don't spend time with each other.
But it is hard spending things without one.
I even have trouble comparing my sister has friends of her own.
Is it fun being alone or not at all?
2007-02-28 01:07:25 · 7 answers · asked by MHal Ed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hello. On being a loner I'd say it's both good AND bad. In one sense it's good because you'll have to learn how to deal with it, become your own best friend (at least hopefully) and enjoy things as best you can. I will attest that it is not always fun and does get depressing. Just work on finding some better friends, cultivate a thing within yourself to deal with and at times even enjoy being to yourself. One thing that's good for me is that I have epals, someone to send my thoughts to at times. I'd also recommend that you start journaling. A journal is a way to share the very thoughts of your heart and soul in a way that can be quite productive. If you can't find someone to share your heart with, then commit them to a journal whether you do it with pen and ink on pads or on your computer (which is what I do). Develop yourself, learn about art and get some culture, and get out and do things... even by yourself. Keep pushing.
2007-02-28 02:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people prefer being alone, it is a very personal decision. If you are an introverted person who prefers to spend time alone, and that is how you are happy and comfortable go with it. If you are an extrovert and need to be in the company of others then that is fine too.
2007-02-28 01:16:17 · answer #2 · answered by smedrik 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I LOVE having time to myself; we all had to share when we were young, siblings, roommates in school, etc.
...but you have to involve yourself with friends/family occasionally. Its healthier for you and who knows when you may need them?
Make plans to meet with them every once in a while; it doesn't have to be daily/weekly. Just enough to catch up on whats new, etc.
Wait til your married...bwah haww haaawwwwww...
2007-02-28 01:17:56 · answer #3 · answered by Slimslimmer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
much better with friends. in your old age you can reminisce about your youth and what you did, just all sorts of good stuff, and you will laugh at some ot the dumb things, and trouble you got into. oh much much better with friends.
2007-02-28 01:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by brown eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it can be good to be alone, but then again it can be bad because you'll go crazy, be depressed and so on.
2007-02-28 01:14:36 · answer #5 · answered by ~lipgloss barbie doll~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever makes you happy. You don't have to have friends to be happy.
2007-02-28 01:35:06 · answer #6 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it is b/c you have less drama and sometimes its not b/c you'll get lonely and depress easily
2007-02-28 01:11:53 · answer #7 · answered by Babycakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋