This guy i know i think hes gay, but i cant tell for sure..hes says he straight but then he does things like-
He called me when we started hanging out-- the first time we really hung out we were on shrooms and he was still messed up and kept calling me just to talk-- but couldnt remeber he kep tdoing it--in gym hell stand by me and wait for me to change before we walk out--he ditches other to hang out with me--he gives me his pills, and smokes me up all the time for free-- he will sit next to me and turn towards me as apposed to across the bench when we are alone--he wanted to get an apartment with me in the future-- we looked eachother in the eyes a few times, like tenderly-- around his best freinds im always his favorite-- im in the closet and i told him, but he said he alrady knew(no one else does)-- hes ok with, says he respects me more-- i caught him saying i wasnt fat one time-- hell make kind of gay comments sometimes, but they are kind of underhand and if mentioned hell cover
2007-02-28 00:23:07 · 9 answers · asked by mike 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I would say he is but who knows just leave things how they are..if you like him let him make a move on you, if you don't like him don't worry till he makes a move...regardless you need to let him come out to you!
2007-02-28 00:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's honest interest if he's at a gay bar. A gay bar is the place gay adult men could properly be loose from judgement while they flirt with different persons, and the assumption is rotated--assume persons are guy, and be shocked in the event that they are not. additionally, basically because of the fact he replaced into at a gay bar does not recommend he's gay or bi. I even have some straight away friends who carry out on the bar with me now and back. they decide for to video demonstrate the girls ;).
2016-09-30 00:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do I think he's gay? No...I think he's using you. The attention may be nice but why is it when you're both high or strung out? The guy sounds like bad news to me and I advise you to turn and walk away.
There are a lot of people in this world who will take advantage of you being gay and that's what it sounds like he is doing.
2007-02-28 02:21:33 · answer #3 · answered by behrmark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do I feel like I just had a stroke and can no longer understand how to read?
It sounds like he could be gay. Hard to say. He might just like you as a buddy to get high with. I'm not sure why you need to "confront" him about it, it's not like you are on Springer. Do you have feelings for the guy, or is he just a buddy to get high with?
You may need to figure your own feelings toward the guy first before you confront him on his feelings toward you.
2007-02-28 05:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by Colorado Bald Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i have a few straight male friends who all know about me as i am out. i am really close with one of them. for a str8 guy to be close with a gay guy doesnt mean he like him in that way. i cant be sure but i quess he likes u as a persson rather than in a sexual way. oppen minded str8 guys who are confident about their sexuality do not mind hanging out with gay guys who are either out or not. gay men like us sometimes confuse simple friendliness with flirting. making comments that are considered gay does not mean u are gay. such stereotypes should not aply any more. when u like a persson as a friend or even love him as a friend it is normal to show afection. him being afectionate with u does not mean he wants to sleep with u. this aplies for gay to gay relationships. I think he really likes u as a persson. i think he believes he has a better connection with u than with his other friends thats y he wants to be with u so often. this does not mean he wants to sleep with u. being oppen minded and respective of other peoples sexual choices should be something natural and not something that means there may be other things involved. :) . i hope everything goes well.xx
2007-02-28 01:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by STEFANOS Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either get it on if you like this other guy or so0n hes goon move on downe the highway and leave you stranded, if your gay and it sounds like hes attracted too you prettily heavily here. the first thing is why would he stand around and watch you undress/dress etc. we bet hes gay and has the hots for you./ unless you dont want him/ or aren't attracted too him.
2007-02-28 01:01:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't be bothered to read your blurb. The long and the short of it is this:
Tell him you're gay and that you fancy him. He'll either accept or decline.
Alternatively take him at his word. He says he's straight so he's straight.
2007-02-28 00:34:34 · answer #7 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be wide open with this bloke he is ready willing and lubricated.
2007-02-28 00:35:02 · answer #8 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him to take a hike if he is offending you, you don't have to put up with the bull.
2007-02-28 01:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋