I really don't like my husband's best friend. I can't put my finger on why. He is kind and generous but I just don't like being around or alone with him. Interestingly,other women have agreed with my feelings and say he makes them feel uncomfortable too. Is it a case of women seeing things that men don't? I've never had this problem before and it's worrying. How should I handle the next encounter with his friend?
2007-02-27 23:53:51 · 9 answers · asked by blank 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, its one thing to be creeped out by someone, i dont see the need to tell ur husband he cant be friends with him as he hasnt done anything wrong at this point other then the fact that he creeps u out.. there should be no reason to be alone with him, as he is your husbands friend , and ur husband should always be present when he is around.. and lets be honest here, it doesnt take much for us women to be creeped out by a guy, he can look weird and it creeps us out and it has nothing to do with knowing him.... How should u handle the next encounter, be nice.. maybe if u get to know him, instead of being judgemental maybe u will see theres nothing to be worried about..
2007-02-28 00:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better if you will tell your husband about what you feel for his bestfriend, he is your husband for sure he will understand and matbe he can help you with this problem. dont keep it for yourself cos later on it will cause poblem with you and your husband to. It is better to be honest and do it as early as possible, you'll be seeing him more often because he is your husband bestfriend and you dont wanna feel that way everytime youre with him.
2007-02-28 02:31:33 · answer #2 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to your husband about it, and try not to get into a situation where you are alone with him.
2007-02-27 23:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's not acting funny while alone with him, then the problem is you. take your eyes off what you see in him that makes you feel uncomfortable.
2007-02-28 02:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by oshokhameye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. He hasn't done anything. He's just weird looking. You can tell your husband that you think he's creepy, but drop it at that.
2007-02-28 00:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that u r not comfortable with him and if he is kind enough to leave u alone
2007-02-28 01:27:44 · answer #6 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should do nothing it's your husbands friend, you don't have to be around him make excuse and go.
2007-02-28 00:14:49 · answer #7 · answered by Shannyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you have to have another encounter with him?unless you want to it isn't because you have hot spot for him
2007-02-28 00:49:13 · answer #8 · answered by PAUL D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU dont have to like your hubby's friend...its HIS friend. If you dont want to be around him - don't!!
2007-02-28 00:06:37 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋