Had my suspisions before but since we've been separated, I can't seem to shake this feeling about it. How would I find out? He definately will never own up to it if he did it, it would be something he would probably sneek and when given the chance again. I don't want to be exposed to the things he could pick up out there.
2007-02-27 23:28:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If yall aren't together anymore I don't know why you really care. Don't worry about him owning up to anything, or him doing it again.
If your really worried about your health go to the doctor. Otherwise let it go.
2007-02-27 23:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he won't ever "own up to it" then you will never know for sure. I guess you could always hire a PI to follow him around then that might get you the answers that you are looking for but that will cost you big $$ so be prepared. Like other people have said, you should forget about it, are you prepared to deal with your emotions if he was when you were together? I see no need to do that to yourself, again if you worried about your sexual health go get yourself checked by a doctor and leave it at that.
2007-02-28 07:41:23 · answer #2 · answered by Kristal E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend who came out of the closet and left his wife and two kids. I can tell you by first hand experience that he would prefer his wife thought other women were interested in him than know the truth. He spent a lot of time at the gay club after she was asleep (he had late shifts at work and went out after that). He also had mens gay magazines hidden. He talked to men on the phone when she was not around. etc. If you spy on him you will find out. Protect yourself!
2007-02-28 08:33:00 · answer #3 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling, if you are separated, why do you care? Why would you WANT to know. If he is gay and he was with you while he was in the closet, he wasn't really with you, hence the relationship didn't work out. Just move on with your life. If you are worried he was unfaithful during your relationship, get tested that's it. Go on now girl and get on with the rest of your life.
2007-02-28 07:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by eee_aww 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's out sneaking about with women, he is just as likely to get an sexually transmitted infection than if he were out and about with men. Really, there's no need to pretend that these are homosexual problems. If you are worried about your sexual health, see a doctor and tell the doctor you are unsure of your partners sexual history.
2007-02-28 08:04:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U shud have found out or made enquiries about them before getting into relationship with the spouse.
2007-02-28 08:13:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you think that you can only be exposed to these "things" if he is Gay as opposed to being straight and sneaking around?
2007-02-28 07:53:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's all about trust.So you don't trust him.Forget about it and move forward.Know matter if it's a another man or women the trust is gone.Good luck.
2007-02-28 07:40:47 · answer #8 · answered by gibbygirl38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. You're no longer with him so it's not important. I'd get an AIDS test though.
2007-02-28 07:50:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i think you should go look around you should see if he is talk to him or you can send some one to foll him and see what happens
2007-02-28 07:33:22 · answer #10 · answered by alisha bessette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋