Why do women believe that they should be worshiped by their men?

Question

What gave women this misconseption? do we "have to" surprise you with flowers and chocolates all the time with peddles of flying romance? likewise, why do men expect women to treat them like kings?

Sparky : Did I say anything about disrespect in my sentence? are you trying to say that a woman can only be respected if I shower her with gifts? seems ou to were brainwashed into believing what your mother taught you. No best answer for you!

Answer 1

It has to do with men actually. The reason that women want these romantic things is because back in the day when the world was much more 'innocent' and sexist, women were considered the weaker sex and often times property and whores. Men had to give presents to prove that they could afford a woman to rule over and take care of since women couldn't work and had to stay home all day like slaves taking care of babies and the house.

Men and women who behave like this are sad, but when I was dating it was tons of fun to take advantage of 'romantic manly men' and their crap!

Personally, I don't fall for that romantic cliched crap and my lover never suprises me with flowers I think flowers are morbid, but occasionally buys me a chocolate bar when he goes out grocery shopping (yes, he does the shopping and the cooking!) It's just a nice thing to do sometimes, it's not romantic and it's not expected.

Answer 2

It's not so much about being worshipped, but most woman do like to be loved and respected, and gifts are nice if they are given genuinely as a sign of affection, the cost of a gift is irrelevant, it's the thought that counts. Anyone in a decent and happy relationship puts as much effort into it as their partner, so their man should also feel loved, cherished, needed, wanted, desired, they are all human cravings, so I guess that it is a natural desire and so no one gave women any misconception. Any man that has a decent upbringing would treat EVERYONE with respect as a mature of course, obviously your parents did not bring you up to respect people.

Answer 3

Coz men are the ones who should do the chasing and conquering. That way the woman knows where she stands and that she is wanted. I know from experience that when a woman does the chasing it doesnt work. Men loose interest. Not sure why. I think it's coz ppl always want what they cant have. As a woman, i have learned to always mantain a certain aura of "slightly out of reach" to keep desire flowing. It may sound wrong, but that's what life has taught me more than once.

Answer 4

In a woman mind we are the beauty that you gaze at, we are the precious meat that you devour to feed your sex drive and we have the wonderful gift of giving you beautiful children, THIS is why. Yes we deserve to be showered with flowers , chocolates, and romance. And for the KINGS in our life, what would we do without the king to rule the palace that we live?

Answer 5

I do not want my husband to worship me but I do expect him to respect me and love me.I do not expect flowers and candy,flowers die and candy makes ya fat.I think those gifts have no real value because what kind of thought goes into them.I would perfer a massage or having him help me out with things in the house, so we could have quality time together.I treat my husband well and he is the king of my heart.

Answer 6

We don't want to be worshiped- just loved. I like to be loved the same I way I love. My answer is best explained in John Michael Montgomery's song, "I Can Love You Like That."

"I can love you like that
I would make you my world
Move Heaven and Earth if you were my girl
I would give you my heart
Be all that you need
Show you you're everything that's precious to me.

I'd never make a promise I don't intend to keep
So when I say forever, forever's what I mean.
I'm no Casanova, but I swear this much is true,
I'll be holding nothing back when it comes to you.

If you dream of love that's everlasting,
Baby open up your eyes....
I Can love you like that."

Answer 7

I don't think the fact we should be worshiped but looked after. We are ment to be the weaker sex so we need our man to look after us treat us with respect (goes both ways). And showering us with gifts just makes us feel better and loved. Where giving a bloke sex, beer and food makes them feel better and loved all women should get cuppas made and get to relax and waited on now and then, it dosent mean we wnat to be worshiped

Answer 8

I don't think my husband should worship me nor do I worship him. What we have is a mutal respect for each other. We do surprise each other with silly little things that means something and it does feel good that we take the time for each other. This is what makes a marriage work, remembering each other and not out to get what you can get.

Answer 9

Cuz they are king of theirs homes, duh! And women like me only expect that, flowers on appropriate holidays, birthday, etc., & chocolates on V-day. Double-duh! Someone's not awake yet! Just kiddin' with you!
Romantic, is something you can be & do without gifts. And if you want some, the time you are loving better not be only1 minute before you want it. ;)

BTW, Goodmorning & have a great day!

Answer 10

I dont feel we need to be worshipped but we do like to feel loved and cherished by our spouses just like you men feel that we should be sexual with you anytime you want. Goes both ways you know. This is not a misconception this is how we feel. Romance and love is very important to a woman just like sex and respect is very important to you! Men have their needs and we have ours. I recommend you read the book His needs Her needs by Williard F. Harley, Jr. Women are emotional beings who need to feel loved and cherished and not just by sex alone. Men are more physical and sexual bdings who want to feel respected and admired. Men like to have sex at anytime of any day even if they have a rotten day it is like a release to them and women on the other hand like to have sex and intimacy IT is called making love to a woman and she has to have a good day and be built up and feel loved when doing so.