2007-02-27 22:08:59 · 19 answers · asked by Star of the Sea 3 in Business & Finance ➔ Personal Finance
Sounds like your friends are takers, not givers.
I want to pass this along because it's always worked for me. I never lend money. If someone needs it, and I can afford it, I give it to them. If I can't afford it, I tell them so. Lending money always loses you friends and causes problems with family. Giving money has never hurt me financially and I believe God finds a way to give it back to me when I do this.
2007-02-27 22:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
this is normal Human Tendency and greed that one wants what he does not have, and for this he does follow any sort of means, U can see several examples in the books and movies. As u r helpful to others and so kind hearted that u lended money to all, but I hope very few have repaid u back, and when u require they dont come to rescue it.
So, its better to take a lesson and help the nedy only after judging that he is really needy or he is greedy.
THANKS
2007-02-27 22:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by AVANISH JI 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a helping tendency. And those who have helping tendency must be good person and none to all though you don't perform on stage. So everybody knows u in the time they are in need of money.
Since you hesitate to ask money u may not have found who will give or You are the only one good person in your locality. The above answer is true and it works with me also.
I don't find any helpers when i need one, though i helped a lot even strangers i have helped.
It is always good people face the test of truthness and humanity kept by GOD. And if u pass by continuing ewaht u are you become great in your life.
Continue to be a great soul though others help or not.
2007-02-27 22:37:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they are not the same as you, you are a very kind .... so don't care about that ,if that happens again don't lend them ..... so they will know they are wrong that not lending you money, because you lend them........
2007-02-27 22:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel _happy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a problem just about your friends so you should not lend them money cause they only think themselves .
2007-02-27 22:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by xeibeg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you hang with the wrong people. Get yourself some new friends that are there for you when you need them to be for a change.
I know how you feel though. Some of us are just always responsible. We attract irresponsible people who feel taken care of when we're around.
And other responsible people are like the "alpha dogs" we rub them wrong because we always seem to be grappling for the top. So we have to give them room and not hang around them so much. This gives room for the hangers on who are always taking from us and not giving anything back.
2007-02-27 22:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by ThatLady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you lack self confidence,to say no,that is why you lend money,and can not get from others
2007-02-27 22:32:20 · answer #7 · answered by kk s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you are financially much better than your friends. They don't have enough to lend.
2007-02-27 22:13:05 · answer #8 · answered by Smart Indian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are asking the wrong people, if they are always asking you for money maybe they don't have it. But if the same people that denied you does have the money then remind them of this next time they come to you, tell them no you don't have it and go on your way.
2007-02-27 22:15:23 · answer #9 · answered by kissybertha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is my experience too.
dont lend money again.
if you want to give give as a charity.
than you never want to barrow too.
2007-03-03 00:39:12 · answer #10 · answered by Kelvin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋