i met a guy for 3 times. he is nice and i think he likes me. he sometimes invited me for coffee or movie.
last time, when i called him, he let me know that he was on business in another city for 2 weeks and he would call me when he is back to the city.
besides, during 2 weeks on business, he did not contact me at all. Why is that?
what should i do now:
- just wait. if he doesnt call after 2 weeks, then leave him alone
- call him if he doesnt call
- send him text message if he doesnt call
Is it possible that he lost my phone number or was sick or had accident?
p.s: he is a foreigner living in my city
2007-02-27 22:08:55 · 15 answers · asked by espiritgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm confused, meeting someone 3 times means a commited relationship now? If he is on a business trip he might not call but then again business generally isnt 24 hours a day so who knows.
2007-02-27 22:13:39 · answer #1 · answered by donaldjasonblair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can he be "cheating" when you don't have a committed relationship with him? Guys like to do the chasing -- NOT be chased. He didn't call you while he was out of town on business because he was on business and some guys prefer talking in person -- what could he talk to you about -- he couldn't make plans since he wasn't there -- he was focusing on his work -- or maybe that was just his way of saying he's not that into you. Don't call him -- the ball is in his court --- quit trying to make excuses for him (lost your phone number, etc.) --- he knows where you live or work, doesn't he and I'm sure he has a cell phone that would have your number in his call log -- turn your attention elsewhere.
2007-02-27 23:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by GrnEyedBlondeSwede 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he is a foreigner, chances are he doesn't place women very high on his list ! Sounds like you're wasting a whole lot of time waiting for the phone to ring. You really don't know enough about him.
2007-02-27 22:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he didn't call u when he was out of town he was with someone else, or maybe never gone at all, just with someone else.don't send him any messages either. he did not loose your number, he is with someone else, he could even be married, or has a fiance. i would forget about this one. too many things about him that u do not know. too many secretive things going on.
2007-02-28 02:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait 2 weeks and see if he calls... if he does not call within a week, then call him... if he does not show interest then hang it up!
2007-02-27 23:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by Misty Bleu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only met him 3 times, I don't think it would be considered "cheating" but have you stopped to think that he could be married? and this is why. On a buisness trip he would still be able to call, don't you think? Be careful.
2007-02-27 22:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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thats just ridiculous.
First you dont go out with him for what i know.
Second, not calling someone mean nothing !
I call nobody but people call me. Does that make me a bad person ? Not at all.
2007-02-27 22:12:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
HE'S JUST NOT THAT IN TO YOU.
No. It's NOT a cliche.
Just live your life like your too good for anyone. Trust me. It works. Pretty soon you'll have dozens of men to choose from and you won't even want any coz your too in love with yourself.
2007-02-27 22:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
3 times and you are committed in a relationship? what happend did you have sex the first night out with him or something? perhaps he assumed you were a one night stand.
2007-02-27 22:17:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why so much of desperation and that too for a foreigner?
2007-02-27 23:55:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋