Which is fundamental in changing ones own identity?

Question

.. start with self-esteem or identity ?

Extracts:
Seligman's critique of self-esteem
http://www.centreforconfidence.co.uk/pp/index.php?p=c2lkPTYmdGlkPTAmaWQ9MTcw
Psychology Today
http://psychologytoday.com/articles/pto-20050502-000002.html

ABRIDGED
G P.. – “A new name, a new face and some new balls.” :: One predicates on pure speculation and on a lighter note that this One exudes male pheromones.

Tonty.. – Control and be contented.

Shrut. – One’s identity may not be altered although one can be obtained through the path one leads determined by the Worldly view.

SANCH.. – One should not change ones identity.

Fear of public speaking may be overcome through training. Despite appearances, consider that the other party might be working overtime at being calm and relaxed.

See extract below.“..change your approach.. take time to think of what you want to say, then say it calmly and straight forwardly. Do not flinch or shake your feet or look all around the room. Just take one step at a time and, SMILE!”

Answer 1

Don't change your identity.

Some people have a problem speaking publicly --most people do. So, they get training in this field or, take drama or acting classes which provides them with opportunities to address others. This helps them to 'free up'.

You know, it might be that the other party could be scared to death as well, but they might be working overtime at being calm and relaxed. It just might be an act so you would not know they are about to hyper-ventilate.

I suspect you want to change your approach or the way you relate to/with others, hence you mention self-esteem. Just take time to think of what you want to say, then say it calmly and straighforwardly. Do not flinch or shake your feet or look all around the room. Just take one step at a time and, SMILE!

Answer 2

you could replace your identity , your very own look, ( ie : dye hair , colored touch lenses, outfits type etc) you could replace your call (via deed ballot) and prefer an actor you could alter the type you carry your self and your walk yet you could't replace who you're. Your consumer-friendly self will pop out. to attempt and alter your self completly over a protracted era isn't feasable. you could build on your consumer-friendly self and become extra of a individual yet which will basically be increasing on who you're actually not changing your identity as an entire.

Answer 3

u cant change ur IDENTITY but can get an IDENTITY.

and there r no funda's for getting identity, but the way u stepped assign u good/bad IDENTITY in the society

Answer 4

A new name, a new face and some new balls.

Answer 5

just u have to control on yourself and be happy always