Whenever my ex contacts me, I am usually prettymean in my response. Are divorce still isnt final. Am I too angry and does that mean I still have feelings?
2007-02-27 21:45:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Usually I get mad and type LEAVE ME ALONE. Do I really want him too or am I trying to hide from him?
2007-02-27 21:49:25 · update #1
Of course you are angry and you will be for a time. And you do have feelings that you can't just stop feeling because it didn't work. Your way is by being mean to him. Everyone is different in how they will react to a divorce. You need to talk to him and voice all your feelings, good, bad , and ugly. Then you can work on closing this chapter. You have allot of things you probably want to say and until you do , this is going to make you even more mean. good luck. > Divorced 3 times lol.
2007-02-27 22:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very angry and may need help and counseling for that and no this does not particurally mean that you have feelings at all. You should not be mean in your responses to this person at all. Try being nice once in a while and see what happens.
2007-02-28 06:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feelings of resentment maybe, obviously he hurt you pretty bad for you to cary that anger in your heart for a while, it takes time if you want to feel calm and better about the whole situation, there is support you could find and also need to forgive, because it's like poison most of the time (unforgiveness) you drinking it and hoping that other person would die from it...it's hard....but it's your choice...
2007-02-28 05:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by happydial 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will always have some sort of feelings for your ex. Just because there isn't a piece of paper saying that the marriage that you once shared is over, that doesn't mean that your feelings stop once that paper exists. It takes time....
2007-02-28 05:48:53 · answer #4 · answered by sprite4481 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat. my soon to be ex wife will call me at work and I get mad but I really miss her too. It makes me crazy.. I am so mad at her, and even hate her at times for what she did. but, I still miss her.. time will make it all better i am sure good luck .
2007-02-28 05:55:25 · answer #5 · answered by robtiger2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok who ended it and, If you then maybe, if Him then be very angry as angry, as you want cause he ended it.
I mean do u want him to
2007-02-28 05:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by turquoise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be angry because you have been hurt so bad.
2007-02-28 05:52:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...........
2007-02-28 05:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋