i know somethings are worth fighting for,so how come some peopele give up at the first hurdle.....why don't they just dust themeselve off and try again....is love really worth the hassle
where lyes the fault?
2007-02-27 21:25:21 · 13 answers · asked by lucky 7 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They give up if their just not that into the relationship.
2007-02-27 21:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by what to do 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be no fault involved...maybe it's a personality conflict. We can't help the way we were raised and how we perceive things by way of example.
Giving up factors in laziness if the "giving up" is too quick and without any effort to save the relationship.
There is a breaking point where some need to realize that enough is enough and move on. Love IS very much worth the hassle. What would the world be like without all that magic?!
2007-02-28 05:40:28 · answer #2 · answered by rggiggles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a relationship now,and I love him so much. He says he loves me,and he wants me in his life. Unfortunately,he's done some very stupid things,and though-as far as I know-he has not physically been with another woman,he has been in regular contact with other women telling them he is single. He promised this would stop-recent events tell me this isn't the case. He told me it was nothing more than a flirt for an ego boost-maybe so. But he also told me the texts never got sexual in any way-the ones I saw were quite graphic! Up until this time (2 1/2 years) we'd been really happy,and I always did all I could to keep him satisfied. Other than this episode,he's always treated me wonderfully. So-I fought for our relationship. I jumped over hurdles. But I'm tired now. I've fought and jumped as much as I can. I asked him if he wanted to be in this relationship-he cried and said yes,that he loved me and wanted to be with me. But if that's the case-why is he doing this? Where does the fault lie? I don't know. I've blamed myself-and now I'm beginning to understand the problem is him. I have to walk away until he's ready to give me the honesty,loyalty and respect I deserve.
2007-02-28 09:47:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was thinking of giving up on my relationship because of problems we have been having but we do love each other and he is trying his best to resolve his problems so we sat down and talked through everything and decided to give it another go
my point is as long as both party's want to try and work things out you can trouble is most people give up at the first hurdle
2007-03-02 23:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by top cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, I think some give up or push the other one to give up because they are just not into the relationship. Communication, pride, etc. You should hear how some people counsel others on here. So much for the "for better or for worse" part of the vows cuz they get counselled to high-tail it out of there!
Pardon me, but your main question doesn't seem to match the rest of your remarks? I'm confused! :)
I'm very sorry, su. Just keep loving him & hugging him. Time will heal his hurt & yours!
2007-02-28 05:47:17 · answer #5 · answered by Nocine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is important to you ,you have to keep going, I do not think that anyone owes it to themselves to give up at the first hurdle, but it is all down to what makes you tick. As to fault, sometimes there is one and sometimes there isn't, nothing is writen in stone.
2007-03-04 03:27:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose you are right. Giving in is much easier than giving up. Some of us just don't know when to stop and begin anew. Love is indeed worth it if everything works out right.
2007-02-28 07:24:02 · answer #7 · answered by sereta zandrae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do not think enough of each other. Mayb e they don't want the hassle, Sometimes it takes courage to take responsibility, admit faults and work out the problems.
2007-03-03 14:48:47 · answer #8 · answered by dover56dover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it hasnt to do only with relationships but with life in general ..people which give up easy never fight for something because they are scared or they dont have much self confidence ...sometimes its normal we give up but for me its only in things i dont believe much in anyway !
life is worth the fight as u always never get something easy and also the feeling after is grant !
2007-02-28 05:38:46 · answer #9 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
l think it is.
lf we had giving up on our rights and believes in the first and second world wars theres no way any of us would be here now!
You have to fight for the things you believe in, that's what separates the strong from the weak!
2007-02-28 07:36:39 · answer #10 · answered by London girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is that no relationship is perfect. But I think many people are looking for one that is perfect & easy, and that's why they give up so quickly. Relationships are give and take and lots of compromises, but the tricky part is not losing yourself in the midst of all of that.
2007-02-28 05:35:54 · answer #11 · answered by libbey d 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋