well there is this boy i fancy and hes 15 im 14 i mean i get embarrassed around him and he seems to get embarrassed around me, i mean when my friends talk to him about me on msn he won't say whether he fancies me or not, once he came round my house because my dad invited his family over because my dad is very good friends with his dad and we didnt even say anything to each other we couldnt even look at each other but at the end of the day he smiled at me for about 10 seconds and said thankyou. and their was another situation were we were working at the same place and he didnt talk to me unless it was necessary i mean he was flirting with other girl except me i think it is because he knows i fancy him hes embarrassed to talk to me, and a kid went up to him and told him facny him i didnt know how she knew but he got really embarrassed and said his mate that if he fancied me he would of asked me out but he never asks anyone out he knows i fancy him but he seems really embarrassed, help
2007-02-27 21:09:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well u make a move girl if he doesnt like asking the girls out then you should do something about it, if you are too shy,embarrassed etc otherwise someone will get there before u why dont you send him a little letter or pull him aside when he is on his own and just say you really like him and does he feel the same or get a friend to put in a word dont be too clingy though i say otherwise he may start making you jealous by flirting with other girls and that wouldnt be a nice sight if you lke him so much good luck n e wayz
2007-02-27 21:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by x-..lauren..-x 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Blokes are scared to make any sort of move, especially if it is a close friend with lots to lose if you make a fool of yourself, unless they are REALLY sure the girl likes them. And another thing, we;re absoultely rubbish at reading the signs, so spell it out for him.
Sounds like the little bleeder has got a bad case of it, and you too. So engineer a situation where you can show your interest, and if he eitehr reciprocates it, or goes all scared, then you are in. And if it needs YOU to do the actual first move, then so be it.
Good luck.
2007-02-27 21:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by Caffeine Fiend 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What is he interested in ? Find out a bit about it - then ask him a question about it. That's how conversations start. Or ask him where he got his jeans, or something. Doesn't have to be a complicated or clever question, keep it simple. He fancies you. Good Luck !
2007-02-27 21:22:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out on a simple date to the cinema or something, he sounds really shy, make the first move.
2007-02-27 21:19:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You fancy him .... u ask him out! make the first move, worst he can say is no !
2007-02-27 21:21:23 · answer #5 · answered by *â??*à Æ?Æ?Ÿ*â??* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sounds just as shy as you. Why dont you make the firat contact and ask him something about music,films clothes etc and take it from there.
2007-02-27 21:18:07 · answer #6 · answered by Ding Dong 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to him and hav a friendship its better than nothing and if he grows to realy like you he will ask you out but if not atleast you are talking
2007-02-27 22:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by jodie e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell are MINORS, doing on here, what is YAHOO doing. I understood MINIMUM AGE 16, or is it your one rule for one and one rule for another policy. Yahoo you make me sick get your act sorted. A very irate parent.
2007-02-27 21:45:44 · answer #8 · answered by auntywobbly 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
just ask him out, he sounds like he is as shy as you so be the braver one and go for it.
2007-02-27 21:16:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i m 14.wanna b friends den giv ur id
2007-02-27 21:12:53 · answer #10 · answered by os 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋