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i have this problem of stammering way too much whenever i speak to anybody..
this makes me think that i ll never be able to find a job because many people say "if u dont have communication skills ur useless"..
now wht should i do?
pls be serious..

2007-02-27 20:15:33 · 15 answers · asked by amazed !!! 4 in Business & Finance Careers & Employment

15 answers

Wenever suicidal thoughts come to your mind think you are running from your responsibilities n you are allowing your weakness to overcome yourself.So dont let it happen.everybody do have weaknesses but gr8 person is that who overcomes it.

Think POSITIVE.Be DETERMINED.Have full determination that you will not stammer this time wen you speak.a time will come wen you ll not stammer.but wat you need is optimism,determination n efforts.m sure you can do it..all gud wishes to you.

2007-02-27 20:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by sim 2 1 · 2 0

It is cowardice to commit suicide. we are not born here to kill ourselves if we have a problem- neverthless, you should not live with the problem- there are 5 answers above which suggest so many ways to halp u - in these days of medical and tech; development just stammering should not bother u and u can be free from it both physically and mentally if u try.
In tech world, stress is on knowledge, hardwork and initiative- communication comes next- just hold ur face boldly and face the world

2007-02-28 04:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by aparajith 1 · 0 0

50 times someone has voted you as having the best answer - your communication in writing doesn't suck, and that's a true asset. Not everyone has to be an excellent speaker. Not everyone has to be a mediocre speaker. Someone is only eloquent because you stammer. IT DOESN'T Matter. One of the keys is knowing yourself and you seem to be doing okay there. Also, it's none of your business what they think of you. It only matters what you think of yourself.

(Ps. If you voted for yourself to get those best answers, you have even more guile than I thought. Either way, you're gonna be fine.)

2007-02-28 04:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by Byron W 3 · 0 0

If you question the act of suicide then you probably shouldn't. Most are certain when the achieve the act, after all they are dead. You should change some things up in your life instead, it is easier then going cold in the dirt. Speach therapy, different job prospects, and socializing with people outside of your usuals all could help.

2007-02-28 04:21:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

In today's world if you lack the proper communication skills,you are no less than a burden to the society. You are really useless as people call you and a coward as well.
By the way if you think this is some kind of publicity stunt I am sorry but its not working.

2007-02-28 04:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by virus-o-mania a 2 · 0 2

Look problems occurs wid everybody but one who overcomes from all those ia a real man.Now dnt get panic.Dnt loose confidence.Life is beautiful.U can apply for back office job or computer operator one.Sorry as i dnt knw abt ur qualification.Make new n good pals so that u may feel good.

2007-02-28 04:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by Fun Loving Gal 3 · 0 0

Well, I can tell you that committing suicide is never the answer. There are doctors that can help with stuttering. They even have new devices that people wear in their ears that helps to control this. There is always a better way. Ask your family doctor to recommend a specialist.

2007-02-28 04:20:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you should try to get some help, either like speech therapy or just therapy. My brother used to stutter when he was younger and it went away, he is now a very successful businessman. It may be related with how your parents treat you; I know I have trouble communicating and I believe it is because of the forced confrontations my dad had with me, I would get so nervous I'd forget half my story and I now avoid confrontations, they scare me.

2007-02-28 04:22:37 · answer #8 · answered by strawberry 4 · 0 0

No, you should not commit. Stammering is not a big problem. Thousands of people have this problem and they are doing well in their job and life. Do not show your weekness. Life is gifted by God. You can not destroy it. Be brave. God bless you.

2007-02-28 04:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by khuranapvp 3 · 1 0

Every human got problem in this life but not visible but you stammering in visible do not worry you will get the job.Please join to any accounts department less talk more work.You will be happy.

2007-02-28 04:49:58 · answer #10 · answered by B A 3 · 1 0

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