things recently ended with a close friend (this question isnt about whether or not we should work it out, i'm just talking in terms of it being over).. and we have a lots of mutual friends. im trying my best to "be the better person" and not talk sh*t about her to any of our friends. i think nothing good ever comes of that, and only really brings negativity to the person whos doing the talking. the problem is, i know her, and im sure shes going around trash talking me to everyone and thinking even worse things. i can see that the reason we are not friends is her own selfishness and closed-mindedness and blah blah... but for those same reasons i know shell never be able to see that, and always have it in her mind that she's right about everything... and shes very good at convincing other people of that. i know i should FEEL good that im being a good person here, but it just bothers me so much to think of what she's probably making our friends think. how should i deal with this?
2007-02-27 19:15:11 · 1 answers · asked by emily 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Keep being you. The fact that she can convice some friends other wise just shows the deepth of their charater. Besides people are generally pretty good at seeing geniune from the fake. Let her make her bed and just try not to feel to bad that she is just hurting herself. Unfornatly thou highschool doesn't always work that way but its time to see who is worth your respect and who isn't. Better to have a few deep relationship as oppose to alot of shallow ones.
2007-02-28 04:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋