first of all im almost 16 years old, but i dont think that makes me childish or stupid to ask this question, if you do then dont bother answering me.. i had a boyfriend last summer, and i loved him from the bottom of my heart, anyway he acted like he loved me too and said it alot (we never had sex so that isnt why he said it) and he was pretty famous cuz he's in like this rock band, so anyway one night after a concert of his i was waiting for him backstage and i heard him tell one of his dancers that hes really into her, and he told her that he couldnt care less about me, then he saw me and knew that i heard every word so i left crying, and he tried to explain but i didnt even wanna look at him... i thought to myself that hes gonna get his payback and its gonna be fair, but now hes even more famous, and his bands shows are all being sold out, and that pretty dancer is now his girlfriend, please tell me why karma wont hurt him the way he hurt me?? its not fair.
2007-02-27 18:58:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Life's not fair in a lot of ways....we all have our limitations....
I'm a firm believer in Karma...what goes around, always comes back around! I know you were hurt by this peon-brained moron. But sweetie, don't wish anything bad or it will work against you in the future. sometime Karma doesn't respond when you'd think it would but believe it does in time...
example: I used to play on the football team in my school days and I used to see other team players on a opposing team try to sneak in a cheat play the referees would never see or call against. Well you know what? Though I and another team mate saw these things, we kept our mouths shut (didn't want to be taken out of the game for arguing with the refs or coaches...), and you know what? Our team ended up winning the game! meaning that they (other team) were creating their own BAD Karma....
even though that happened like it did, Karma's timing is always unpredictable...but it happens!!
your ex-bf created his own bad karma by going against you! and yes he will pay and learn the hard way...Karma will never fail you, just don't think of bad Karma....OK!?
BTW: I'm glad you decided to not have sex with him....you really should wait until you get married, you never know if you're going to run into another one of these characters before then, though I hope you don't. Nobody deserves to be treated like that.
2007-02-27 19:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by Rmprrmbouncer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved him you would be happy that he is doing well even if you are not still in his life. I don't think Karma has anything to do with revenge. Let it go and be happy that you overheard him. Were you with him really because he was in a rock band? It is better he is with someone with the same talents and interest. I am proud of you for not haveing sex with him. If you had you really would have been hurt a lot worse. Now go dry your eyes and go out and have some fun. Oh yeah stop being a groupie.
2007-02-27 20:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You learned a tough lesson in life to not trust everyone.
Love is a word used way too early in a relationship.
And rockstars.......well they can't be pinned down.
Life isn't fair. And Karma.....well it isn't always obvious. He will pay eventually. Maybe not until the end of his life.
Karma is not ours to keep track of. That is the nice thing about karma.........we can let go and be assured that eventually everyone gets there's at one tome or another.
2007-02-27 19:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, in my opinion life in general is not fair. There are some people out there that even though they don't deserve they have an amazing life and are very blessed. One day though, one day he will have a really bad experience (like we all sometimes do) and maybe he'll look back and wished he had done things different with you. I wish you the best, watch out though because teenage boys are very ignorant and immature. They really are.
2007-02-27 19:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the two good issues and undesirable issues take place in existence. If existence became honest, undesirable issues does not take place. Your question is so extensive that its troublesome to truly answer it. existence isn't honest because of the fact the international posesses "evil" and there are those with undesirable intentions. In each and every situation, there's a winner and a loser (oftentimes, sometimes there may well be double of the two) yet oftentimes, there is somebody who gets the incorrect end of the stick and suffers. suffering is a factor of existence. If existence became honest, we would be residing in a utopia, and that may not possible. that's bodily impossible for the international to be honest, because of the fact each and every action which you do might displease somebody. case in point, a westerners style of residing might look stunning to them, yet to somebody who may well be a great deal islamic or something, a western existence is seen as evil. each and every action, theory, reasoning, each and every thing has a flipside. i wish this made it sparkling to you - suffering is a factor of the international, and you are going to be able to purely cope with it.
2016-10-16 22:27:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
karma doesn't have to get him immediately. you can find another guy that's even better than this rock band kid. who knows how their relationship will end up , and because he's a musician, he'll probably get into all sorts of drugs and **** himself up. don't worry, you'll be fine without him. and good job for not having sex with him. maybe he has an STD lol....who knows?
2007-02-27 19:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lifes not fair...sometimes when a person gets what they desaerve its not the way you want it to go.But everyone pays for the things they do.You never know maybe years down the line he will be some cracked out musician that loses everything from his addictions.Things dont happen when you want it to happen...they just happen.You should just move on and dont stress yourself cuz of him...one day he will get treated the same way he treated you
2007-02-27 19:04:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Karma relys on time.And it's bad karma for you to wish bad things upon this idiot.Relax,and watch him get an STD or worse.You are just hurt and vengeful right now.
2007-02-27 19:08:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to this website.
learn the basic and some examples of karma here. it's fair.
http://www.11meditation.co.nr
2007-02-28 14:42:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, sooner or later he'll get it. It'll bite in the a** hard. Just like and see. You just move on, girl. F*** that foo. Just be patient, girl. Good Luck!
2007-02-27 19:20:04 · answer #10 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋