How do you get a lot of publicity?

Question

What are things that I can do in my hometown, and out of town that would give me great publicity and popularity? What are some positive things that would get me noticed, and maybe possibly even famous. Nothing like crimes or prositituion, or anything else negative. I want to be idolized and a positive role model for everybody who sees and knows me. Even my worste enemies.

I am one of those girls who was always teased and made fun of for no reason, and everybody picked on me. I hated my life and I was always so depressed. Now i am older and better, and I am out of my shell, and I am determined to be somebody!

Please help me figure out how to do this. All my life I've felt like a nobody, and I am finally out of foster care and all grown up. I also want to help others who are like me.

What can I do and how can I start?

Thank you everybody in advance, I really appreciate your help!

Answer 1

You want to be idolized?

Just live and be you. Nobody's doing that nowadays. The greatest act of defiance you can throw against society is to be publicly happy.

You're headed down a lonely path if you have to be something your not to get attention. You'll just be the jester.

Do good to others but don't let yourself be stepped on. Be independent.

Answer 2

Your sad life has made you feel like a nobody. You were a victim but now you can be a winner. It is a cliche, but the first person you must impress is you. People can be very cruel because of their own fears and inadequacies. Try not to listen to their voices because you can allow them to diminish your love for yourself for your entire life. Let your heartache make you strong. We are all sisters and brothers with one father. Find a goal for yourself and make that goal a reality for you. Being famous does not necessarily bring adoration or happiness. Just look at the unhappy state so many celebrities are in. Marilyn Monroe was considered the most desirable woman of her generation, yet, she died alone on a Saturday night. Accomplish what really interests you and you will realize what a loss NOT loving you was to those who should have loved you.

Answer 3

I was like you. you don't have to prove yourself to anyone. you said it yourself, helping others that have been through what you have. get an education, there are lots of grants and loans out there. people are not attracted to losers with no education, even if it's a technical degree. Get into the case worker field, join the Chamber of Commerce in your town. Go to all the fund raisers and functions, net working things you can. There you will meet outstanding people, they will accept you as one of their own, you'll hang out with local celebs., it's fun! and volunteer at your local Civic Club or what ever your town has. Everyone will see you as a winner. I did it. It worked really well.

Answer 4

This is so wrong on so many levels, that I went to read a little more about you...and my opinion is that you are a very sad young woman. I'm concerned about you based on the other questions you are asking in other boards. I don't mean to offend, please just hear what I have to say.

I notice that most of your questions are about dieting and compulsive exercising, and this question just confirms for me that you are very desperate for other people to approve of you.

I hope I can help you...but you will not like what I have to say. You won't believe it is that easy.

STOP trying to get noticed! You are killing yourself trying to get attention from other people. What you are doing, is ignoring yourself. Start paying attention to yourself and loving yourself, and then it will NOT matter who else notices!

You are not a nobody, I can tell you that. You know why? Because you were born. That made you SOMEBODY the whole time. Somebody very special with a reason to live well and take care of yourself...so you can do the job you were put on earth to do. The reason you FEEL like a nobody is because you are putting your self-esteem in someone else's hands! People will never care about you as much as you want them to and that is why you must take the best care of yourself. So making it this important to get recognition is going to set you up for failure. Even if you got famous round the world, you wouldn't believe what people say about you. I promise you it wouldn't make you happy!

What if, instead of doing positive things in order to get attention...you just do positive things. Period. What happens when you step outside yourself and give without asking anything back, is you get everything I can tell you desperately need. You get:

Human interaction to curb your loneliness. Personal empowerment of being able to help someone, feeling like what you do in life matters. Self satisfaction at helping someone else. Better self-esteem.

When you genuinely care about other people, beginning with yourself, you don't have to get noticed by others for it to change your life. And that's good because...darlin...people don't get recognized often enough for doing positive things.

I honestly recommend that you begin each morning with prayer...however you define it. HUMBLE prayer that you are grateful that you were born, and asking for help to make the most of that day.

Then if you need to stretch or workout...30 minutes should do it. Then take a shower, put on an appropriate amount of makeup and modest flattering clothing. Eat a healthy breakfast, take yourself out into the world with a smile, knowing that you have taken care of yourself. Smile because you love yourself. That may be the only thing that is worth trying to do that gets you any positive recognition. Just smile and say hello to people who look like they need it.

But see helping other people only really comes naturally when you love yourself first. It is a sign that you have so much love for yourself left over that you just have to spread it around. What you are trying to do instead...is give all your love away to someone else, and then hope someone notices, and gives it back to you. It never ever works this way. Don't give away your self-esteem like this...you don't always get it back!

Answer 5

Organize a community food drive to help the less fortunate. You sound like a really nice person.

Good Luck,
Chad

Answer 6

well Diamond
As opposed to creating a monster here--hopefully I will set a good thing in motion-- but I am going to give you a key-- it is solid gold and it works like magic -- but-- it will require a MAJOR change in your attitude for it to work-- because -- in order for you to achieve your goal here -- you are going to have to refocus your complete and total intent that you have stated for you to actually gain what you say you're wanting !!!

In order for you to be considered an outstanding individual on any other level than one who is a major contributor to say the arts or sciences --- one must be involved in true and genuine service to others--- So--- in order to be well respected and a person of note within your community--- you need to find a way to bring a lot of attention to the needs that are in your local area within a given group or within a given area---- say work with the homeless or abused children or people plagued by illiteracy !! The bigger stir you make on behalf of THESE people --- the bigger footprint YOU are going to be leaving within the community at large as an individual who is DOING something worthwhile and noteable !!!

The ironic thing here though is the FACT that you are going to HAVE to loose the YOU in all of this in order to find the YOU that you are truly looking for !! Fame and notariaty for itself and nothing else is extremely shallow and pointless and the fame or notariaty that comes from the thin vail of personality and position alone is short lived and at its very root---fruitless !!!

So, as the oriental philosophers state--- you must first loose yourself in something of value to find the value within yourself !!!

Answer 7

Wash cars with a tight wet tee-shirt.

Answer 8

make a public statement saying you're the father of anna nicoles baby.

Answer 9

You can open your own blog.
You can open your own Web Site
You can ask others having blogs or web-sites to upload
your photo as their friend

You can try these sites:

http://www.friends-search.net/
http://www.friendship.com.au/findafriend/
http://www.findafriend.com/
http://friendfinder.com/
http://www.find-friend.net/
http://cgray_from_dc.braveblog.com/
http://www.letsfindfriend.com/
http://groups.msn.com/FindaFriend
http://help.msn.com/resources/targeted/en-us/msntvv1/conte...ingle_chat_findfriend.htm
http://www.qq.co.za/friends.aspx
http://www.huminity.com/about/adult%20friend%20finder.com.html
http://www.findafriend.com/terms.html

Answer 10

just take it easy...!!!
your life will become easier. relax and try NOOOOOOOOO
not try DO LIVE EVERY MOMENT OF YOUR LIFE....!!!!!!!