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i asked this another way but didnt get much a response. basically is it gonna hurt the ex if i tell him im engaged to be marreid and moving in with someone else already??

2007-02-27 17:57:31 · 20 answers · asked by lady26 5 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

im not realy i am just sayin this to hurt him on purpose. and yes he deserves it

2007-02-27 19:08:03 · update #1

20 answers

Well it depends on hwo long ago u split.. if it was recently then yes it will but better he hear it from u than someone else.. at least show him the respect of doing that.... but if u r talking along time ago then it prob wont .. but i am thinkin it was more recent so yes it will but give him the respect of doing it urself...

2007-02-27 18:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by angelindisguise 2 · 0 0

My ex husband and I are still the best of friends because we have a teenage son together. (We went to court together when we got divorced, this is how close we are.) If you and your ex have a good relationship, he will hurt, of course, but if he's sincere in your well being and happiness, he'll get over it and be happy for you. I'm not remarried, but my ex is. I was perfectly fine with it. I was so glad that he has someone that will cherish him and take care of him like I did when we were married. His current wife and I are very close as well. I hope you have a good relationship with your ex like I do and your predicament turns out the way you want it to.

2007-02-27 18:05:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yes & No - The result would be accorind what ur ex still feels for you.. If both of you have succefully mvoed on well i dont see any harm. You need to have ur life as well. However if ur ex is an introvert who will keep his love for hidden deep within.. it will hurt him more than anything ever.. What ever the result maybe the correct thing to do would be to open your self up to him/her and say it. Its best to get it off your head rather than live with guilt. Guilt is dangeruous and will damage ur mind.. So let it go and hope it work out great for you.

2007-02-27 18:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by lincolnveto 1 · 0 0

Why should it hurt your ex and you are divorced. If you still have feeling for your ex do not take it into this new relationship. So just care about you and not your ex feelings and move on with your life. Turning back may bring on some upsetting avenues.

2007-02-27 18:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0 0

I think it will hurt him if he truly cares about you, but he should be happy for you and glad that you told him. If he doesn't care about you, then it won't make much of a difference. He should know that you are moving on if he is your ex-husband anyway. It was hard for me to find out about my wife talking about marrying someone else, but it is because we are not separated yet. But it is still better to know.

2007-02-27 18:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by Confused 1 · 0 0

It depends on how much time has passed. And why would you tell him -- do you want the news to hurt him? How would you feel if the situation were reversed.

If you guys have that kind of relationship where you share personal info, then by all means do. If you're just trying to let him know "Hey, you messed up and I'm moving on" -- I wouldn't, but that's just me.

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2016-09-30 00:19:29 · answer #7 · answered by schiraldi 4 · 0 0

It should hurt, you were married once, as bad as it may have been you were still united in a special way with another person (emotionally, physically and spiritually), being united in marriage is something that cannot be matched, well, maybe having children together with your spouse, maybe that is even better, anyway, would it hurt you if he told you ?

2007-02-27 18:10:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

No matter how you look at this question you should not be engaged or moving in with anyone for the obvious reasons

2007-02-27 18:38:44 · answer #9 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 0 0

Are you really moving on with someone else if you are worried about if it will hurt the ex?

2007-02-27 18:17:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

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