2007-02-27 17:48:56 · 6 answers · asked by casper 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we weren't married but we lived together. she became to complacent in our relationship.everything was taken for granted there was no chase in the venture I lost my appetite for foreplay and romance.In the beginning she wore nice things and fixed herself up I liked beign seen with her. towards the end it was as if somehow i was with a different person.Theres a riddle that comes to mind and please i don't wish to be offensive!!!Question: "how do you change a fox into a cow?" Answer:" Marry her."
2007-02-27 18:15:25 · answer #1 · answered by ____ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Verbal and emotional abuse and lack of communication leading to an absence of any sexual relationship. For six years tried to persuade her to get some professional help together with me to try to resolve problems. Eventually gave up and moved on.
Never any infidelity or other physical reasons. In hind sight she probably just wanted me to go and I wasted six years to realize it.
2007-02-27 17:57:33 · answer #2 · answered by John B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
-Constant lying
-Running up 10's thousands of credit card debt by getting new cards behind my back
-Constant nagging
-Blaming me for her mistakes
-Blaming me for our daughter's mistakes
-Putting me down in front of others
-Getting fired from every job within two to three months
-Giving her no good family money instead of saving it for our daughter college
-Having to sell property that was in my family for 100 years to pay off her racked debt.
-Having to close out a 401K and IRA to pay off her debt
-Wreaking every car we ever had
-Verbal attacking all the neighbors
-Buying food and letting it spoil
-Turning on all the lights when I am not home just because I asked her to conserve energy
-Dumping a bottle of fabric softener over my computer and monitor just because I bought the wrong 'color' of fabric softener
-Questioning the intent of every gift I ever gave her
-Getting upset every time I try to help a friend with a problem
-Harassing women at my work only because they are women that happen to work at the same company as me
-Constant false actuations of everything imaginable
-Throwing away my clothes just because she misplaced hers and assumed I had something to do with it
-Not being able to go into a store without buying things we don't ever use or need
2007-02-27 18:06:10 · answer #3 · answered by Al Bunn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not enough sex and excitement, in other words boring relationship.
2007-02-27 17:52:04 · answer #4 · answered by European in IN 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
taking me for granted! not having any ambition herself!blaming me for her own failures!her not wanting to work and then making light of my career. at least i have a damn career. just a few of many, many, many, many!!
2007-02-27 19:33:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
arguing alot of it
2007-02-27 17:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋