Trekking through Dark Waters. How to get out of a relationship with a Scorpio?

Question

My friend and I have a problem. Were both in relationships with Scorpios. Were both Cancerians. We both want out. My problem is I can't let go. My friend's problem is that her family has a history of mental illness and her brother throws knives at people. So if he breaks up with her, he could end up on her families hit list if you know what I mean. How can we get out of our relationships?

Answer 1

It's actually quite simple. Be honest and tell them bluntly that although they are a wonderful person, they are not the right one for you, so you want to end the relationship. Do not show any fear while saying this because Scorpios will take advantage of this. Just say everything firmly and they'll back off. After all, who wants to be in a relationship with someone that doesn't love them? Of course, they will be hurt, but Scorpios do treasure honesty. As long as you're straight with them, then you're okay.


To deal with the psychotic family, I suggest moving to another city. Alternatively, you could get a restraining order if they are too psychotic.

Good luck!

Answer 2

Just because you and your friend are having a bad experience with 2 scorpio women, please don't think that all scorpio women are terrible. I'm a scorpio and the nicest person you would ever want to meet. I was in a relationship for 7 years with a man whos sign was cancer. We never once had an argument or a said a harsh word to each other.It was a match that was meant to be.
If he hadn't died from a massive heart attack we would still be together.
It's all about how good the 4 of you can make your relationships work. If the gal you can't let go of doesn't love you, it's time to move on even though it is hard for you. You can't change a person or make them love you. As for your friend, I think he needs to get away from her and call the cops and let them know he fears for his life.
Just remember,even if you were with another sign it may not be a bed of roses. It takes 2 to tango. Good luck to you and your friend.

Answer 3

Im a Scorpio, so I understand your dilemna. I suggest you and your friend change your names and move to a remote forgein country somewhere in the far east. That, or uhm...well. I cant really see any other options here. (Im f'ing with you...lol) Seriously, just tell them that you're not happy. I dont know the situation, so I cant comment much, but being honest is your best bet. But do keep an eye out for flying objects.... Good luck!

Answer 4

I am a aquarius with a history of 3 relationships with Scorpios.
I don't place much weight on Astrology, but there are times when I though what was said about the different Zodiac signs seemed to bear a close relationship to the truth.
As so was mine with Scorpios, during repeated similarities in all three relationships.
Scorpios at first dominated my psyche through their supposed
atmospheric MYSTERY and when disturbed or provoked, also was I intimidated by their sense of ruthlessness.
It was difficult to break off from them . for I wanted to discover what would make them tick, so unpredictably and frighteningly
cold, aloof, manipulative, shock-giving and overall possessiveness covertly, almost artfully performed over me . . until one day, in each of the 3 involvements, when I realized that in the whole of the Zodiac, Scorpios were the masters of suspense. A suspense as one would feel seeing a scorpion across the room, aware of you, raising its' stinger before launching forward to attack.
But I am an Aquarius, and I realized one day - that to this, there were also 2 sides to the story or myth.
So I said to the last Scorpio I was to be involved with : "You know, you may come at me, all of a sudden with that raised stinger AND Deeply get into my skin : painfully, causing a swelling with its' poison and a fear of you, afterwards of you, because of your sudden and powerful stealth. But I the water bearer, have forgotten something about my own power, while under your spell. And that power is that I carry a terracotta vessel upon one shoulder. A vessel filled with water to pour and offer to quench a thirst toward supplying a generous sustenance . . instead of honoring, appreciating that, you've chosen to sting me at any time it was your design to do so, for which, I could see no purpose . . Therefore, I am the one in charge now, re-inheriting my power, so, let me tell you - I am breaking this strange relationship off, so full of spider webs and scorpion nests hidden at its corner . . and if you try to prevent me from abandoning the Bela Lugosa (Dracula) atmosphere through which you have intimidated me into stunning me in order to control me : BEAR THIS IN MIND "SCORPIO", I will not nurture you any more with my endless supply of water, instead, as you next come at me, if you should dare, The very vessel I carry upon my shoulder, I will allow to be dropped on your shelled body, and IT (I), for we are one and the same, will crush your skeletal frame - flat and squashed on the hard ground. You keep your softness whatever it may be, - (because to tell you the truth I've never really known it, more so I have been stung into a paralysis by your sense of the mysterious) - inside you, but I will see it spill out as so much sticky mush, now that i've seen through your cold-blooded charade.
That was the last scorpio I ever had a fascination for.
I've come to the perhaps unfair conclusion that : if you've KNOWN a Scorpion, why, you've Known them all!

Have I helped at all?

Answer 5

Move to a new town, just to be on the safe side! You should both avoid the Addam's Family mansion when thinking of dating in the future!

Answer 6

They'd appreciate itmost if you respected them and just said you want out of relationship.Scorpios HATE when someone tries to pull the wool over their eyes!

Answer 7

i'm a scorpio so run........hehehehe