i realize that i could be aggressive but i think i shift between being aggressive and assertive depending on the situation. i do not know y ppl are on my case...can't i just be who i am? they want me to soften up...maybe i should, but the problem is that i don't feel soft inside! i'm not some withering flower...plus, i'm a foreigner and if i don't hold my ground i will lose myself here bcoz life is so tough in LA and all ppl care about is money...it is a jungle! i don't personally like passive ppl or ppl who put too much effort trying to make something sound nice. i am also attracted to aggressive ppl...
how can i deal with this whole situation?
2007-02-27 17:25:25 · 3 answers · asked by saxoool 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
take an anger management class and get yourself into therapy. you sound really angry. why?
2007-02-27 17:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let them people bother you. It is a strong point to be aggressive. In certain professions you need this as well as some daily issues. don't change yourself for anyone but you because if you don't think you need it then it will never happen.
2007-02-28 01:33:04 · answer #2 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please enlighten us and tell us where exactly you are from....
That might actually help.
2007-02-28 01:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by BigTip$ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋