it seems like all my other friends have boyfriends or guys that like them. Is it because I don't lower my standards on what I believe in? or is it that I just have'nt found the right guy yet??
2007-02-27 16:46:36 · 15 answers · asked by Cierra 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
nothins wrong with u but if it makes u feel better im single
2007-02-27 18:01:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have asked myself the same question a dozen times in the past. Then my brain caught up with me.
Let's focus on this from the perspective of numbers:
There are billions of men on this planet and millions of singles in every significant country.
Woman age 18-35 are generally in their peak reproductive years and there are links between male attraction and fertility: If you are this age you can probably net a man without much difficulty
And out of billions of men, I'm guessing there are a few who match what you are looking for (unless it's something really weird like 'Amish prince charming with Rolls Royce')
:-)
Do you get my drift? It's not scientific, but I bet you that there are some good guys out there. Try socially networking, putting on a confident face, going to conventions, libraries, cafes, lectures, or museums where the mature ones may show up (generally I avoid bars and dances because they tend to act like boys in a candy store). Trying to look your best also helps.
By the way, for me, the problem was not that there was something wrong with me, but that I lived on an all-girl college campus without a car! I haven't fixed these issues, but at least I'm being more reasonable about it! :-)
You haven't found the right guy yet. Trust me. :-)
2007-02-28 02:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by Dalarus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure how old u are.. but it seems ur still young.. take from someone that has been in a realtionship for 4 years..dont rush into relationship..just because everyone else has one..doesnt mean u should get one..and never lower ur standards.. or belief..because if a guy was the rite one they would respect ur standards and belief. its not about finding the rite guy or being the rite person.. its about working together to be the rite person.. but thats when ur in a realtionship.. so dont worry.. i think u should focus on urself more..and whats important u to..because its never to late to have a boyfren.. being in a realtionship is fun for the first 3months..lol ..so advoid the stress and anger u can get from it.. just have fun.. let that one guy come find u..dont look for him.. or else ur'll find one u dont want.. trust me.. just focus on urself..and be a strong independent women..and guys would find it attractive and by no time.. there'll be at ur door.. i hope all is well take care
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2007-02-28 01:05:01 · answer #3 · answered by Pajmuas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For every guy theres 10 girls...Yup these are the facts.
Remember there is always someone for you.
Don't lower your standards and fall for the prick who just wants
sex.
Look for the guy who finds you attractive with no make up
sexy in sweats, thinks your more beautiful than the worlds most famous model.
DON'T LOOK FOR THE PERFECT GUY, HE'S SUPPOSED TO FIND YOU ,THE PERFECT GIRL
2007-02-28 00:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by Fern 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever lower your standards? You don't mention age but the right guy will come around you just need to be patient.
2007-02-28 00:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by shari68352 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you havent found the right guy yet, and never lower your standards just so you could have a boyfriend, if its love its love never let people push or change your beliefs
2007-02-28 00:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just that you haven't found the right person. At least I hope becuase I am in the same boat!
2007-02-28 00:49:11 · answer #7 · answered by JOEY/ KATH K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should really watch "The Secret" or read the book. This has helped me with a lot. There's more about it on Oprah.com
2007-02-28 00:50:02 · answer #8 · answered by Y!A P0int5 Wh0r3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just haven't found the right guy
2007-02-28 01:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep looking, the person is out there.
2007-02-28 00:48:44 · answer #10 · answered by Santa Barbara 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋