2007-02-27 16:18:36 · 39 answers · asked by nita 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Run away as far and as fast as you can. Wherever this relationship goes, it will not be to your advantage in the long run.
2007-02-27 16:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by The Whiz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Back away. Even if he does leave his wife and children for you how can you be so sure that he wouldn't do the same thing as he did to his wife. Don't be the one to break apart his marriage and cause a rift in his family and possible the hatred of his son.
I know easier said then done, but you got to remember that there is nothing good that can come of this. You'll always be thinking "is he doing the same thing to me as he did to his wife with me?" that's not really a way to live.
your 23, your young find a man that is not attached and have a wonderful relationship with him.
2007-02-27 16:23:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless he's divorced from his wife, you need to leave it alone. As far as his wife probably knows they are just having a rough patch or everything is perfectly fine. Think about how you would feel if your husband cheated on you with a younger woman, that's what you are doing to this guys wife. It's not right and it's only partly your fault. You need to leave this relationship alone until he sorts out what he wants to do for his family. It will be rough if he decides to leave and you'll need to support each other but if he refuses to leave his wife then you know how he really feels. Don't fall for him telling you that his wife would fall apart or he's staying for his son. It's all bullshit. If he loves you, he will want to be with you, open and honestly without the sneaking around.
Don't listen to these people calling you a home wrecker. He's the married one and while your not totally without guilt, it's not your responsibility to stay faithful to his wife. You didn't take the vows, he did. We all make mistakes and i really think you should let this one be yours and move on.
2007-02-27 16:25:42 · answer #3 · answered by Alyeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now. Do you want to be the cause of breaking up a family. You say you love him he has a wife and kids. I am sorry but that is not right what so ever. Let him leave his wife for his own reasons but not for you! Its girls like you why us good girls cant keep our husbands! Leave the married men alone go after some one on your level.
2007-02-27 16:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by mandy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's probably not what you want to know, but I think you should break it off with him completely immediately and choose not to be involved in the breakup of his family. Spare your dignity and your heart. Even if you did manage to lure him away from his family, which would be totally uncool of you, who's to say things would work out between you? Really consider the idea that he just might leave you in the same way at some point in the future.
2007-02-27 16:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go
How could you love someone with such a bad quality? Cheat on his wife and family? Come on..
Dont make a mistake, dont break up a family, dont put yourself in a situation where you are with someone who has already established his life.
You are so young, you may want kids, you may want to move, you never know.
He's already had his kids, hes settled, he cant move unless he leaves his kids, its a bad situation for you.
Be smart and be a good person, leave this taken man alone. Dont cheat yourself or his family.
Good luck
2007-02-27 16:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by independent101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him go,honni your still young and their are plenty of good men out there for u. so no need to take him, he's got a son AND A WIFE!!!!!,oh no no no.....no need at all ,let him go,live ur life and find Love some where else...(i'm only 15 but i think i know what i'm talking about..)good luck in what ever u do:)
2007-02-27 16:28:11 · answer #7 · answered by bye bye!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. He is a married man with a child. He isn't going to leave his wife for you. You are just a piece of a-- on the side.
Go find someone who doesn't have a girlfriend or a wife.
2007-02-27 16:24:30 · answer #8 · answered by brotherb95 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm do you really love this guy? do you really want to ruin his childrens life for your pleasure? although i do not know how you feel i do though want to say is that you have a whole life ahead of you this man you supposedly "love" already has a family and is very much older than you. But if you say you really love this guy all i can say to you is to follow your heart and you know you will make the right decision.
hope i helped
xoxoMoeisha
2007-02-27 16:24:58 · answer #9 · answered by Moeisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lolol omygosh your an idiot!!! First of all he doesnt love you otherwise he would leave his wife your just another young lil hoe for him and secondly your a Biotch for doing this how in the hell can you get yourself in this situation why do girls like you do this kinda **** when you know the man is MARRIED. Leave him alone and be ashamed of yourself for leaving this kind of question use your common sense.
2007-02-27 16:25:38 · answer #10 · answered by Lvg619 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he should tell his wife about you if he is not in love with her and u and he can live happily ever after..NOT! It's not a fairy tale..get over it..He will not give up a relationship with his son for u....his wife? Maybe but not ruin it with his son.
2007-02-27 16:22:14 · answer #11 · answered by NYEVE43 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋