Ok. I tend to relate and communicate better when interacting with members of the same sex (Males). On the contrary, i feel so nervous (shy) when interacting with girls and i can't even maintain a good eye contact. Is this normal? How do i overcome this weird behaviour?
2007-02-27 15:53:16 · 10 answers · asked by Tim 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
That's completely normal. You're just shy and maybe a bit self-conscious. Alot of people are like that. It's not weird behavior at all. I'm assuming that you're young. As you get older you get more confident and comfortable with talking to members of the opposite sex. When I was a teenage girl I could talk freely with my girlfriends but if a boy smiled at me I'd look away and my face would turn red. As I matured it got easier and easier to talk to guys.
2007-02-27 23:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of us guys are like you, interact well with my fellow male buddies but when come to the girls, we are a little nervous and lack of that confident. Especially to the girl we fond of, we somehow don't even dare to take another glance at her, let alone to talk to her.
I agree with practise made perfect. Try for yourself, buddy.
2007-02-28 00:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by 4K's 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No . You're perfectly normal, guys like you just tend to get nervous around girls because you tend to feel like you are going to give them a bad body language , when actually they are the ones that are confused.
You act normal around guys because you hang around with them. It's just like hanging out with your family but when you meet cousins that seem unfamiliar you tend to get nervous around them. That's just the way it is.
Just open a conversation by just saying hi to girls so you'd take the pressure of yourself.
2007-02-27 23:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by Rizal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not weird, youre just not used to women,women are different, very different from men, you just need to really get a real interaction with them especially if you have feelings, special feelings for them, and another thing, boost your self confidence, its alright to be shy sometimes, but definitely not too shy
2007-02-28 00:01:07 · answer #4 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was totally terrified to talk to girls, and didn't, until i was like 18 or 19. it's natural and normal to go thru feelings of shyness, maybe some insecurities and self-esteem issues.. you feel you are on the spot and that she is going to judge you.. i've been there.
you just gotta approach girls and talk to them.. don't worry about those crazy hormonal sexual thoughts.. lol just think of them as friends.
2007-02-28 00:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds pretty normal to me. Just practice. The only way to overcome nerves is to step up to the plate. :)
2007-02-27 23:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by kacey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear
Yes It is not normal
You are suffering from deferent thinkings within your selves, inferiority complex , etc
You start taking calmpose tablets half every morning this will keep you cool
2007-02-27 23:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by sudha 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
interact with them more, practice makes perfect.
2007-02-27 23:56:53 · answer #8 · answered by j train 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wat u are facing is kinda pretty normal actualli.. Jst keep talking more to ur oppo sex and as time goes u will find is natural...
2007-02-28 00:31:52 · answer #9 · answered by sUnseT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're gay...
2007-02-28 00:26:43 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋