A teacher asked a math question in class 4 extra credit, I instantly knew the anwser and stood in front of the board did the equations but it was wrong...The very same kid in front of me rewrote what was my mistake and he got it right...What he said shocked me more when he sat down, when he turned around to face me. He said, "No matter how much effort you give, you will always earn second to last place, because you are just different and you suck at things.
"And you try so hard but it's useless, even with help from others they truly think working hard gets them rewards but it doesnt."
"There are two ways by which every winner gets and loser gets, 1 is by working hard and geting rewards like me, and 1 like your self working hard and get nothing."
I felt so bad, when I came home pulled off every 2nd place honors.
Why do I give it all and fail.
I have to try harder and longer than others if I was to be able to compete in the Society
I feel like sucide that day,i lose
2007-02-27 15:22:36 · 9 answers · asked by GoAndComeback 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Damn...man that sucks...but screw them, they are just asssholes. You can't let people like that get to you, if you do, they win, and they'll walk all over you. I know what it feels like, I never really had a "good" school experience, and a lot of things got to me...eventually I decided that it wasn't good for myself, and now that I don't let things bother me anymore, I am probably happier than I have ever been. Don't think about suicide, God didn't create you just so you can end your own life.
2007-02-27 15:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by disturbed_rock05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously bro,
that guy is a tool. If you try you are way ahead of most other people. Most people just sit back and let life happen to them. If you work hard it will pay off. I know it doesn't seem like it and you have a long way to go, but it will work out. Don't think like that guy does. Only someone who is truly empty inside feels the need to put others down. If he was a "winner" he would give you a hand when you needed it and you would help him when he needs it. No one will help that guy when he needs it, and he will need it. If you're an honest hard working guy people will like you when you get out of school and into the real world. When people like you they will want to see you succeed. That guy will be hated, because he hates himself. That is why he feels the need to hurt you. Truly great people want to help others and work hard. You will find something you are good at, and when you do everything will fall into place. Just stick with it. I know it sounds too simple but there is no magic to it... you just have to stick it out.
2007-02-27 23:35:27 · answer #2 · answered by swag.madsci 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no worries, mate. Everybody hits the rough surf at some point in their life. Everybody does.
You're living in a great age - people of all types can find others like them fairly easily, and get there easily if they must.
If you can't handle the "normal" life, join a clan or closed society that you most identify with: an ecovillage, a biker gang, a supersecret government lab, Mormonism.
Besides, tools aren't useless. I made use of a tool just today. Tools are helpful. In fact, without a tool, I wouldv'e been in a sad state.
Keep on keepin on!
2007-02-28 02:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by sincere12_26 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey. I don't know you but I love you because you think like I do. That may be to your detriment. But there is a truth that can help you. The fact is that your success has nothing to do with how useless or how useful you are. If you win or lose that makes you neither worth more or less. In the Bible, Romans 5:8 says that God showed us how he loves us by giving his life for us, and that he died for us while we were sinners. What I get out of this is that God thought I was worth dying for even when I was a complete screw-up in his eyes. He doesn't value my usefulness by how much I succeed. Instead He just loves me. My value to Him is based on the fact that I am human, and God made humans to be like Him (at least in as much as humans are good). So God loves you because he sees your heart as one that is weighed down by the same burdens of the world that grieve his heart. You Won before you were born. You have eternal success because of what you were created as (an object of God's affection). The only possible way to fail is to reject the one who loves you.
2007-02-27 23:35:51 · answer #4 · answered by Chiaro 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suck at Math too. But I'm not giving up. You can't be the best at everything. But there is something out there for you. Don't just give up, just know that there are people that have lives 10x worse then you. And thing about how you will hurt the people that you love.
2007-02-27 23:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by Koko Butta Kream 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are easily discouraged on the things happening to you and yet you are tempted to end your life. Remember that your being tempted is one way of the tactics of the evil spirit to bring you to the dark side of the world but your guardian angel was able to grab you to go to the lighted place. I hope you could understand what I mean.
2007-02-27 23:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by Jesus M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why feel like suicide ? I dont understand that. Just becauase he was a plon**r to push it in your face why should you worry about a wan**r like that. relax and let him burn himself out and just take it easy and learn.
2007-02-27 23:30:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i can tell you one thing...self pity is not exactly a recipe for success...who gives a crap what others think about what you do...live your own life and be proud of who you are...
2007-02-27 23:31:29 · answer #8 · answered by Ben i 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hmmm....
2007-02-27 23:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by SunShine 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋