Well about 2years ago i went out with this guy. He treated me really badly. I was in counselling for it. But i've worked though it and now we are friends again.
But in the last 2years i made really good friends with this other guy, he moved away from where i live but we really love each other and i'm moving to be with him next year.
Any way, last weekend, the guy i went out with 2years ago, came up to me and said 'I still love you, i've never stopped loving you and i'm sorry for hurting you'. I don't love him, and i don't trust that he's changed. He's also going out with one of my good friend's friend. I said to him that i wasn't interested in being more than just friends.
I have to see him once a week and now knowing that he loves me is going to be really weird. I actually feel really bad that he still loves me.
What can I do to make him get over me? And get the message through to him that we're only friends?
2007-02-27 15:18:01 · 6 answers · asked by ★☆✿❀ 7 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I reminded him that he already has a girlfriend, but he says he doesn't care about her.
He doesn't know about my feelings for my other friend
2007-02-27 15:31:41 · update #1
there is one of 2 things here... 1 he's actually got his act together had some long hard thinking and he's figured out he never stop "loving" you. and that he honestly wants you back. sad thing is it's probably because he's just dreaming of how you made him feel a long time ago and it's not how he feels now. best thing would to not get upset or mad and just say it's nothing personal you just are with someone else... it's for his own good. 2 he's a jerk and he figured out your hotter than he thought you were and he just wants you to be able to brag and so that you can do everything he wants you to which could be very dangerous. best thing would be to just keep your distance don't bring attention to yourself but don't completely ignore him... just be like... it's not going to happen, and walk away... he'll get mad at you for about a week figure out he's an *** and go to the first possibility... or he'll just go... "dits"... and forget about you... either way you would be able to leave in piece... hope this helps
2007-02-28 10:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by Farlow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your honesty to him was the perfect start. If he is relentless, I would tell him that : "Although I enjoy being your friend, if you continue to make this hard on me, I will have to distance myself from you and that's not something I really want to do but will." Remind him that he's spoken for and you have fallen in love with someone who has treated you like you deserve. Let him know that you understand he was young and stupid and he's sorry for what he's done but the only thing you are offering him today is your forgiveness, nothing more.
2007-02-27 23:28:46 · answer #2 · answered by momto3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind him that "you never hurt someone you love the way you hurt me". Let him know you are getting on with your life and please don't strain our friendship with unwanted "love".
2007-02-28 00:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by mamma-mia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's playing games! the thrill of the chase ..... just don't fall for it!
tell him your not interested....and good luck!
2007-02-27 23:26:07 · answer #4 · answered by ~*common sense*~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make your self really ulgy
2007-02-28 00:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by speedy >>> 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU. AT LEAST I DON'T THINK SO.
2007-02-27 23:51:09 · answer #6 · answered by unknownmystery 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋