child .the child would never have a real bond with the father .how can you put a woman/man before your child,or love your flesh and blood any less.what's sad is before man/woman starts having affair they dont think about the situation at home,when pregnancy occurs most choose too abort or runaway from their resposiblities,and I know sometimes birth control fails but,this is for the ones that intentionally don't use birth control.
2007-02-27 15:13:09 · 4 answers · asked by phillygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I got one about a dude in his 60s:
He's on his 3rd marriage. His wife is my best friend from highschool's mom. He's pretty much abandoned his kids for the "kids" (one's late 30s, the other one is in her 40s) in his new wife's family.
The thing that really blows my mind is that when they got married, my friend was spending a year overseas after college and she never even met him until she came home for the birth of her sister's baby...and she calls this guy "dad"!
2007-02-27 15:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men hide their babies out of stupidity. I have a seven year old who hasn't seen her biological father since 2001. It's a shame, but happens. What's a bigger shame is that she will want to know him when she gets older, and I will have no control of it. I chose to have her knowing that we may not stay together, but I was getting too old to have children, if I could go back, I would have her again. No regrets, I do, however wish that all women were self sufficient before making that decision.
2007-02-27 23:27:14 · answer #2 · answered by Ofie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people want a life with no cares in the world...they don't want someone bothering them and they want the free life...
When I went to date 6 yrs ago...I told them I have 2 kids I love to death..them mean the world to me...some did not like me putting the kids before them...they did not understand kids need to come first...
2007-02-27 23:22:48 · answer #3 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good question this is one of those questions like why do kids get abused?why do kids die?why do people get murdered?why does abortion happen?
2007-02-27 23:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by libraslovebeautycare 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋