while doin it i really tighten up on.. and it feels like spasms in me.do u know what this is.im 25 and married,so im not scared or pressuered...also like the day after it hurts to sit down i get the spasms then too...
2007-02-27 14:57:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
i love and enjoy my husband i and i never had any past traumas
2007-02-27 15:07:23 · update #1
You should consider going to a doctor or psychologist with your husband and discussing it. I know that this is uncomfortable, but its a better alternative than being in pain when youre supposed to be experiencing pleasure. What you are experiencing can be very frustrating, but there is hope. It can get better. Sometimes tensing us is a conditioned response your body does due to past trauma. Your body remembers negative experiences, and despite the fact that you are comfortable now, the same conditioned response can still occur. It would really be helpful to talk with someone. Good luck
2007-02-27 15:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by Lolly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like the answer to this one too. I have had the same problem for many years. Sometimes the spasms come on quickly for no reason at all. I'll keep an eye on your question to see if you get any good answers.
BTW, I'm close to 55 and still have this problem at times.
2007-02-27 23:01:32 · answer #2 · answered by Nepetarias 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an orgasm doesn't it.
2007-02-27 23:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by Lynne W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋