only has sex with women, is she straight or lesbian?
Yes, this is a serious question. A close friend of mine is in this situation and knows my fondness for hairsplitting arguments and wordplay, so she asked me. I can make the argument either way, so I thought I'd enlist some help.
Please - no "politically correct" answers. Just give me an honest opinion, preferably with the reasoning behind it.
2007-02-27 14:56:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Mostly good answers so far - thanks.
Android - yeah, it would make a difference. Post-op, she's a lesbian. It's the pre-op thing that has me chasing my tail.
Uhh - no pun intended.
2007-02-27 15:22:02 · update #1
I think honestly she's lesbian, as in strict terms her brain is in coflict with her sexual appearance.
Would you think different of her iff she was post-op ?
Is she on Hormones ? Is she already doing her RL test.
Is she still getting erections ?
Is she a TS, TG, TV, CD, Shemale ?????
There so many citeria involved,and only a small amount of info.
And is it not society that has made rullings as how long one as to wait before SRS is allowed ?
2007-02-27 15:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by android200002 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Given that a pre-op MTF feels that she is actually a woman, this would make this lesbian behavior. I'm going to separate that from BEING a lesbian, because maybe she is actually bi. You didn't make that clear.
Legally though, a pre-op is still a male.
2007-02-27 14:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by partygrl319 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A pre-op MtF is a woman, albeit a woman who was born as a man and has a penis. If she is only sexually attracted to women, the MtF is a lesbian.
That's that. Hope it helps.
2007-02-27 15:07:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sexual orientation is a state of mind, therefore if the person identifies as a female, and has sex with other females, then in theory, "she" is a lesbian.. however, that's only if the sexual activity is of lesbian nature.. (oral, fingering, frotting, etc)
if this person is comfortable with "her" penis and is able to sustain an erection and is able to enjoy penis-to-vagina intercourse with a female, then in my opinion, this person is not really a transsexual.. "she" is a male who feels capable and comfortable in the male sexual role. she is actually just transgendered and/or transvestite.. this is a straight male who enjoy's crossdressing.. having the surgery would be a MAJOR mistake.. true transsexuals hate their penis and are unable to use it in sexual situations.. at least in theory..
2007-02-27 15:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by Jeff 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bits of both..it depends on wats running thru her mind when the deal is being done at that point.
does havin thoughts of having sex with a heto man turns her on?if yes, shes probably a straight girl in a mans body.
if no,shes probably a les in a mans body,means a girl who likes girl but in a mans suit. she doesnt like to be seen as a male,doesnt like male, but wants to be a girl with a girl. confusing? i hope not...
2007-02-27 15:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by dumbbibi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since he's a male now, and he sleeps with women, he's straght. When he becomes a woman, if *she* continues sleeping with women, I guess she would be a lesbian. Interesting question!
2007-02-27 15:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i conceder my self to be trans-lesbian
not that it there is such a stereotype
but i am really bisexual but more asexual
when it comes to a partner
it does not matter what the label is
as long as we are being our selfs together
love has not boundaries age race gender or disability
2007-02-27 16:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by Zara3 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A dude is a dude is a dude. I could have a tail attached surgically, but that doesn't make me a cheetah. Ummmm.... if a pre-op MTC has sex with a cheetah, is that beastiality? Come on...
2007-02-27 15:00:37 · answer #8 · answered by DrRocco 3 · 0⤊ 5⤋