I have been hanging out for the past couple of weeks and I have been going to his house when his parents arent home and to the movies when they are. He likes to cuddle me, hug me, he likes me to lay on top of him while we watch the movie and tap my chest and rub my tummy. I know this is all fun and games he is like an older brother to me but is it more? Give me your opinion. He is 21 in college and I am 16 in Highschool.
2007-02-27 14:52:27 · 16 answers · asked by Just Wondering 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
And it is not like I don't like it and it doesnt bother me. I just want to know if he does or doesnt. That part doesnt bother me, not knowing does bother me. And I would NOT send him to jail. Like I said he is like a brother and I am not going to have sex with him. I just want to know the truth.
2007-02-27 15:20:57 · update #1
He likes to tickle me
rub my stomach
pat on my chest
wrestle with me
mess around a little bit
lay on top of me etc. just hanging out
do you guys think he likes me?
2007-02-27 15:22:21 · update #2
Dear...he likes you. Think any guy that does it whenever you two are the only ones home likes you. I'm not for sure about the tapping of the chest kinda weird I'm not for sure what that means, but anytime touching of the chest is involved he like you.
2007-03-06 04:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by doctorgiantsquid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooooh yeah, he likes you. He seems to like you enough to want to test the age of consent, if you know what I'm saying.
I actually dated a 20 year old when I was 15 for a month, but I never told my parents. He would have gone to jail even though we only ever kissed.
Are you into him? If you are, you need to figure out if you can do all of this legally. If not, you better tell him and NOW. There is a reason he's not courting you when his parents are near.
2007-02-27 14:58:31 · answer #2 · answered by Aimee L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He likes you but he's in a different world he's in College think about it, you need time to mature and he wants a woman,
If you can't be at his house when his parents are there. That's a good indication he knows this is wrong.
Find a nice guy at school to hang around with, you'll be happier.
2007-02-27 15:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by S h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion as a girl, you may have to be careful. You are still a minor. A lot of guys out there want only one thing and nothing else: sex. Talk to him. Communication is such a great factor in any type of relationship, so ask him how he feels about you and tell him how you feel about him. He probably genuinely likes you, but discuss if you you two are willing to take it to the next step and start dating.
2007-02-27 14:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by Miki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..age aint nothing but a number, but never say never (about having s.e.x.) because u never know...i think hes trying to be nice and get you all butterflies inside and when u fall for him and "think" ur in love, he will do something stupid to mess it up..if u see him like a brother then y be all touchy and lovey douby with him?!?! i think u need to b friends and thats it...he will hurt u and im not trying to think negative, but the guy knows how to play his game..he is 21..feel me?! well hope u make a good decision!
2007-03-07 09:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by JB. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard about abstinence?
I mean, no offense, but don't let him touch you where you don't want to be touched. Let him know firmly, and set out your guidelines when he does attempt to go further.
He is on a different level of maturity than you are. It's probably better to be neutral now, and stay as friends.
He probably likes you. Maybe its infatuation, but not real love. Real love develops over time.
2007-02-27 14:58:58 · answer #6 · answered by karrylbee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think he likes u but if u really want to know then give him a kiss and see how he reacts. if he kisses u back and makes a move then he likes u and if he retracts and asks what u were doing then he probably thinks of u as a younger sibling
2007-03-06 11:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by fever_ricious13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he is sitting on the couch....kick each of his shins 5 times and walk away and never go back. he is a bad omen
2007-02-27 15:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL u what. YOU shouldnt be there if his parents r gone. ANd if he has sex with you, you could send him to jail.
2007-02-27 14:56:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda obvious.
2007-02-27 14:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by Lohla 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋