I think some may not understand "the big deal" about a chemical pregnancy since it occurs very early right after conception but at the same time I think the "loss" is just as valuable as any other beings. Anyone experienced this?!
2007-02-27 14:51:38 · 8 answers · asked by purringout 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
http://www.womens-health.co.uk/chemical.html
It's a very early miscarriage, girls.
2007-02-27 14:58:01 · update #1
Oh, well how come they call it "chemical," then since it's still a pregnancy no matter how early the loss is? (I know, you didn't make up the term.)
I also think a loss is a loss. Heck, I used to cry every time I got my period when I was going to the fertility doc. For the entire two weeks after insemination and before my period, I'd think I was pregnant and I was pregnant over and over.
I lost my second pregnancy (that sounds strange to say!) around 6 weeks, which to me, wasn't early since I saw my son's heartbeat at 6 weeks. I didn't even know I was pregnant, either, until they told me. Two things made it easier to deal with: 1) I didn't know I was pregnant and hadn't gone through any treatments. If I had, and knew I was pregnant and then lost it, it would have been much more difficult. 2) I have my son, who was almost three at the time. If it had been a first pregnancy, I would've have been much more upset. Even so, I grieved.
You need to do what's best for you during this and don't let anyone tell you that you shouldn't because it was too early or whatever! You know what you feel and what you need to do to come through on the other side. Do it!
I'm sorry for your loss!
2007-02-27 15:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A loss is a loss no matter how early it happened. I believe the loss is even great because of the process you had to go through to have that pregnancy. ((HUGS)) I lost my baby somewhere around 3-5 months they really aren't sure. I didn't even know I was pregnant, but I still feel the loss...
It's ironic becuase I found out of the loss in June of 2004 and June of 2007 I am due to have my second baby. I feel like heaven is giving me another angel and I'll forever remember my first...even though I never "experienced" the pregnancy I still had a life growing inside my womb. And, so did you.
2007-02-27 22:59:41 · answer #2 · answered by Baby #3 due 10/13/09 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was pretty sad when that happend to me. I think that when you know that there is another human inside you, no matter how small, and it doesn't make it, you have every reason to be sad. I think it's just hard for people to understand, and if they don't want a baby then they don't see it the same as someone who are trying for one. Sorry for your loss, just remember that everything happens for a reason, and it all will work out in the end.
2007-02-27 23:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by La 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It was devastating. Beautiful for those few days but not meant to be.
Just shy of a year later, I was pregnant again. He came a little early, but everything went well. He's amazing.
2007-02-27 23:13:11 · answer #4 · answered by ihatesunsets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thankfully, i've not experienced that, and i'm sorry for your loss if you have. of course the grief is just as valid. who decides at which moment in the pregnancy you are allowed to grieve if you miscarry? anyone who doesn't understand how you feel should at least respect your feelings or butt out, in my opinion. no one can tell you what to feel.
2007-02-27 23:00:26 · answer #5 · answered by Misty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I have had 3...and you are right it is just as valuable..it was the beginning of a human life..and all human lives are valuable....Good Luck!
2007-02-27 23:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa ♥'s Tim 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
WT*? What exactly is a chemical pregnany????
2007-02-27 22:55:38 · answer #7 · answered by erin_foss8191@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Uh, what?
2007-02-27 22:53:49 · answer #8 · answered by scarfyrre 3 · 1⤊ 4⤋