2007-02-27 14:49:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
For me, the understanding usually preceeds the aversion.
2007-02-27 14:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by Andrew 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. Yes, I do. Sometimes the reason is very apparent in the beginning. Other times, it takes a good amount of time to see beyond the facade and understand their true nature, and to why I despise their antics that conflict with mine....No Matter, either way,I always do contemplate the matter and try to see what i can do in my own power and way of thinking to rectify it.
2007-02-27 22:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by cap3382 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if i have to have a lot of contact with them...right now I am learning something new at my job. There is an overly motherly woman there who is very knowledgeable but overwhelms me with superfluous details to the point where i want to(or have ) cried. I thought about this. Sh ehas adult children living with her and does it to them too, attending to their every need, so I took that intelligence, and ask her things I really want to know about...taxes, money investments, divorce nuances...and she gabs away at me about these things. Thus, it fulfills both our needs now, her need to mother, my need for basic business info.
2007-02-28 04:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by turtle girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's usually very obvious why. I don't get aversions very often, or for frivolous reasons.
2007-02-27 23:10:49 · answer #4 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the encounters are always negative, I just shrug it off as someone that I care less to associate with any more than what I have to.
2007-02-27 22:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by Ella 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I always want to understand the feelings that urge me to keep my distance from certain people.
2007-02-27 22:57:06 · answer #6 · answered by Buttercup - VP Bamma Fan Club 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea, but first I try to understand what aversion means.
2007-02-27 22:51:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Usually I just trust my gut, unless the reason is glaringly obvious I just know it, and let it (the feeling) and the person go.
2007-02-27 22:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by kmv 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope...I normally listen to my gut feelings and when I don't like someone it is usually because they have a bad vibe about them.
Nice patch...
2007-02-27 22:53:17 · answer #9 · answered by White 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not as a rule.
Sometimes, though, I feel bad and try to work it out.
But generally, I'm way to bored to care.
2007-02-27 22:52:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋