Is Interacial Dating Better?...If NO..Y?

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INTERACIAL DATTING TO ME IS VERY INTERESTING!...AS AN AFRICAN AMERICA<<<(I SOUND SO FORMAL!) I REALLY LIKE MIXING IT UP ONCE IN A WHILE!!...GROWING UP..EVEN THOUGH I'M STILL YOUNG. I WAS SORT OF TAUGHT THAT INTERRACIAL DATING WASNT GOOD! BUT I BEG TO DIFFER! I'M NOT SAYING SAME RACE DATING IS BAD, BUT I PREFER INTERACIAL DATTING BETTA!

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Answer 1

None is really better. Its dating. I'm not against interacial dating, but im for inneracial dating. That was you stick with your traditions and customs and keep your nationality and race alive
if everyone interacially dated then there would no longer be one race, people would be mixed.

Answer 2

I'm a white female and dated many different men of different ethnic backgrounds. I'm pretty sure that I dated someone from every continent.

It has it's ups and downs. Cultural differences can sometimes become a hot button issue. Cultural differences can sometimes be more than another can accept. I think with every relationship you are bringing two different people together that will need to make compromises in some way. There will be differences to reconcile. The problem is that when crossing cultural lines, you might be adding more issues that can be resolved in one lifetime.

Some examples:

The typical black man I dated was sexy and sensual, but not particularly warm or particularly interested in being friends.
There was also a difference in attitudes about being on time, how much sleep someone needed, and interests were often different.

The typical hispanic man was sexy, passionate, aggressive but also not very warm or friendly. Most of them thought it was not only acceptable but normal for them to have other girlfriends. Punctuality was not in their vocabulary.

The asian men I dated were warm, charming, intelligent, and funny. They tended to be too serious sometimes. There were differences in what we thought our roles were.

Now all of the above differences and clashes came from the perspective that I'm white, a southerner, a tom boy, and a workaholic. Even with similar type white males there would be clashes.

Example again. I married a Puerto Rican. We have been together for 14 years. We have a wonderful marriage. There have been some serious clashes concerning cultural differences that we have had to compromise on. One being on time....it drives me nuts when we are late....he doesn't care. I hate it when I invite his family over and everyone filters in late for several hours after I had dinner cooked. I think it's rude to be invited to someone's wedding and not go to the ceremony but attend the reception to get free food and drinks...he does not. I think that there are various dishes from across the globe that are outstanding, but a typical Puerto Rican would rather die than try too many new foods. At least the family that I've met. I won't wear hoochie momma clothes and I think it's pretty embarrassing to see a mother of six (whose body has long since seen better days) trying to wear clothes for a sixteen year old.

The list goes on, but with the understanding that some times I have to give and sometimes he has to give...we have done just fine. I love Puerto Rican food and he's learned to try new things. I have learned to just re-heat food for the late comers. I have learned to talk as loud as the rest to make my voice heard. I've even added some loud colors to my wardrobe. I have been teaching my daughters as much Spanish as I can. I took a salsa, merengue dance class. He gets ready on time now. He knows that in my family we hug. He has developed a serious passion for Nascar. He lets me grow tomatoes on the stoop.

It has it's challenges, but with the right two people willing to give and take...it can be very exciting as well.

Answer 3

I'm not for or against against interracial dating. Race and ethnicity are only two of hundreds of qualities. I'd like a guy who is smart, nice, secure, and around my age. No restrictions on color or anything. Did I mention that I'm interracial? People are interesting!

Answer 4

I wouldn't know.

Why do you add these program codes so that we can't report you in the regular way? First, what about your question would get you reported but these codes? Secondly, there are other ways to let Yahoo know that someone is violating the rules in this way.

Answer 5

I'm a white girl, and I've dated black men in the past, and I'm with a Puerto Rican girl now, so you can say I'm into interracial dating >:)

Answer 6

There are good people and bad people. People come in many different colors,

period.

Answer 7

YOU KNOW, NO MATTER THE COLOR OR CULTURE OF A MAN.. WHEN ITS ALL SAID AND DONE, HE IS STILL A MAN! COLOR DOES NOT MATTER.