I am 54 years old and my wife is 51 years old. She loves me so much. I only like her, not love her. We been together for at least 30+ years. I never had children with her but I did made love to her since I was 28 years old. She fell shortly to a terminal accident. I told her "I love you" so many times I cannot even count. I never fell in love with her. I didn't leave her because I wouldn't have someone to have sex with and she'll be heartbroken if I did left and i would have been paying for child support if she did got pregnant... and plus, I never fell in love with her so i didn't want to be very sad if she had died. If I did fell deep in love with her, I know I will be very sad right now, but good thing I didn't fell in love with her. I can imagine myself leaving her and not being sad. I don't feel bad at all for her death. I had to pretend to be crying on her funeral to let her family think that I am sad but really, I am not sad. I don't plan to ever fall in love but will date.
2007-02-27 14:48:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
umm.....I'm not really sure what to think .......
my first thought was did this guy off his wife because he was miserable and couldn't take it anymore
then I thought ..... maybe he stayed for the children's sake ~ as many people do~ but you said you didn't have any with her
so now I am wondering ...... why stay so long and what is the reason for all this resentment you seem to have toward her (I know this because of the things you have said and no compassion @ all for her death)and unless she held you by gun point or something it was your choice to stay..... You chose to be with her that long, and I just feel you screwed her ~ and yourself out of so many years.
2007-02-27 15:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by ~*common sense*~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe your evil...I mean, there must be a nice side to you for you to be with her for as long as you were. Also you mention that you stayed with her because you didn't want to see her sad so that's a selfless thought. I think it would have been best if you would have broke it off with her earlier but at least she passed away believing that you loved her.
2007-02-27 22:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by Ebo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you didn't love her you shouldn't have stayed with her so long. And I don't see how you could be with someone for so long and not be sad when they die. You are cruel and heartless!
2007-02-27 22:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by dmstanley02 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not evil just a very selfish, self-centered individual.
2007-02-27 22:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no just old,cold,and stupid just a bad person overall i knew old people wer mean but nooooooo mom didnt believe me.
2007-02-27 22:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by wamzy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude u dont know what you got til its gone trust me
2007-02-27 22:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by dark and mysterious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋