I am 54 years old and my wife is 51 years old. She loves me so much. I only like her, not love her. We been together for at least 30+ years. I never had children with her but I did made love to her since I was 28 years old. She fell shortly to a terminal accident. I told her "I love you" so many times I cannot even count. I never fell in love with her. I didn't leave her because I wouldn't have someone to have sex with and she'll be heartbroken if I did left and i would have been paying for child support if she did got pregnant... and plus, I never fell in love with her so i didn't want to be very sad if she had died. If I did fell deep in love with her, I know I will be very sad right now, but good thing I didn't fell in love with her. I can imagine myself leaving her and not being sad. I don't feel bad at all for her death. I had to pretend to be crying on her funeral to let her family think that I am sad but really, I am not sad. I don't plan to ever fall in love but will date.
2007-02-27 14:47:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In my opinion you are a sorry son of a ***** and she deserved better than you. As to your question the answer is yes.
2007-02-27 15:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to seek professional help. You cheated this woman in so many ways. First you let her believe that you were in love with her. You could have moved on and she could have found love. You are a very selfish man she deserved better. Just being her friend would have been reason enough to cry at her funeral. Even if you werent in love with her you should have been a better friend to her. You were with this woman for 28 yrs and you dont even consider her a friend. Your reason for not leaving her is sad. Seek help and please dont do this to another woman. You know KARMA..what goes around even though you are not seeking love it might seek you. This time you will walk in your wife shoes. I hope you enjoy the fit.
2007-02-27 22:57:25 · answer #2 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup , evil is a word preselected that is working for you, no need for any immediate changes, sometime people express sadness or grief for another in a strange way, what is your connection to the whole mixed up disaster. Sounds like only one person didn't get the emotions that she was entitled MAY BE SADNESS IS NT in the cards for you yet, also the shock of what you did may come forwARd ar another time. Pray, ponder on the issue and do the right thing@
2007-02-28 00:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know what kind of an answer you want from us. First of all, it was hard to understand, but let me figure this out. You didn't love her, but let her believe you did to not hurt her feelings, but also because you wouldn't have anyone to have sex with? Then, she died and you faked being sad, but you're really glad so you can now date? Why do you think it's right for you to put another woman through this? Yes, I believe you need help, especially because I think you believe that this little "confession" makes everything alright. You need to ask God to forgive you and give your heart to Jesus. He will forgive if you're truly sorry. Getting involved with another woman, or should I say "victim" is WRONG!
2007-02-27 23:19:07 · answer #4 · answered by gone2soon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good job....you are going to hell
2007-02-27 22:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a sick SOB
2007-02-27 22:51:54 · answer #6 · answered by s0n_0fa_gun 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋