I am 54 years old and my wife is 51 years old. She loves me so much. I only like her, not love her. We been together for at least 30+ years. I never had children with her but I did made love to her since I was 28 years old. She fell shortly to a terminal accident. I told her "I love you" so many times I cannot even count. I never fell in love with her. I didn't leave her because I wouldn't have someone to have sex with and she'll be heartbroken if I did left and i would have been paying for child support if she did got pregnant... and plus, I never fell in love with her so i didn't want to be very sad if she had died. If I did fell deep in love with her, I know I will be very sad right now, but good thing I didn't fell in love with her. I can imagine myself leaving her and not being sad. I don't feel bad at all for her death. I had to pretend to be crying on her funeral to let her family think that I am sad but really, I am not sad. I don't plan to ever fall in love but will date.
2007-02-27 14:47:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't know about evil but you are the most unfeeling person that I have ever read about. After that many years how could you not love that person? I love my puppy of 7 months more than you loved her! And you said you never fell in love with her 4 times. That is strange that you have to keep repeating that. And as for pretending to cry ??? I cried so hard at my FRIENDS funeral that it was hard to breath. I think you are a disturbed, empty , cold , person. And I think it would be best if you didn't even date. How scary is that knowing that you might be out there dating some poor woman who has no clue what a monster you are.
2007-02-27 15:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not evil, just a good liar! You have been living a lie all these years, and now you feel guilty you need to go to church and ask for forgiveness to God and your poor departed wife you need confession for all your lies.
2007-02-27 14:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? I feel sorry for you...
you've wasted your whole life and you've never loved.
Hopefully your poor wife was none the wiser.
Good luck.
2007-02-27 15:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, we all do horrible things. God is the ultimate decider. Trust me, I'm no angel myself. We are human.
2007-02-27 14:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by Mike Fisnett 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you are evil, just a coward.
2007-02-27 14:57:27 · answer #5 · answered by Pandora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not evil, you are however heartless. Good luck to you.
2007-02-27 14:53:15 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋