Well I've been friends with them for over 7 years and there like my best friends but since then theyve been making fun of me & who iam am. Iam a funny person but they dont take things seriously they just laugh and push me. I want then to be happy but its almost like this everyday now. They fund of me, my personality, & physical appearance how they say "you have such a round face" and she pinches it sooooo hard. My cheeks turn red & i get mad in the inside but i dont show it.
How can i make them stop or show my feelings?!??!?!
2007-02-27 14:43:04 · 18 answers · asked by Thrills 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sorry i didnt check my spelling :]
2007-02-27 14:45:13 · update #1
you cant make someone stop thinking that way but you can tell them how you really feel and how you do not like it. if they were your true friends they wouldn't care what you look like, they would care what you think. if you tell them how you feel then it will send much relief off of your shoulders. keep being funny, its who you are and don't let go of it and if they don't take things seriously then they don't know you. believe me tell them what you think and let them know that's who you think of your true friends are and they need to treat you better. but if they say oh I'm just playing around you are taking it too far, then there is a big problem. if that is then you need to talk with them one on one and personal. hope i did something.
2007-02-27 14:51:05 · answer #1 · answered by Briana K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell them to stop, NOW! It might be funny to them, but you shouldn't have to hold it in like that. Just maybe tell them you need to talk to them, and say "Look, I know you're joking when you pinch me, or say stuff about how I look, but it hurts my feelings sometimes, and I don't want to be pinched. I don't pinch you or make fun of you, so please stop doing that."
Don't wait until they do something to say it. If you do, they will already be in the playful mood and won't listen. If you can't tell them in person, tell them on the phone...but do tell them! Good luck!
2007-02-27 22:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they think that you find it alright that they do all this rude things to you. They may not realize how much it bugs you since you said you keep your anger on the inside. They may not even realize that what they're doing to you is quite annoying & rude.
Talk to them and tell them how this is making you feel. Sooner or later they should get the point, or they're not really considered friends.
Goodluck :-)
2007-02-27 23:30:21 · answer #3 · answered by MOVED! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are your friends then I think they would understand how you feel. The next time they pinch you or make fun of you I would just let them know not to do this anymore.(you don't have to be mean) Let them know how it makes you feel. Like I said if they are your freinds they will understand, if they don't respect you then they are not very good friends.
2007-02-27 22:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by Sabrina M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A $ $holes, that's what your friends are being. I had friends like that. As they grew older, both of them decided to make me the stock of all their laughter. It isn't cool, and you should voice your opinion. You aren't some amusing puppet. You have feelings and you're tired of them being hacked away at.
2007-02-27 22:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should go right to their face and tell the if they want to be ur friend or not cuz u ain't taking their mean things that they do to themor maybe they are just jealous of u
2007-02-27 22:48:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem like a pretty cool girl, and you should just be upfront with them and if they are truely your friends, they would stop.
2007-02-27 22:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by jb2ds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell them the truth about how you feel. If they're your true friends they will understand that, they will appreciate it
2007-02-27 22:50:12 · answer #8 · answered by NietNhat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put what you wrote as a message to them just click the compose button n paste
2007-02-27 22:47:07 · answer #9 · answered by treonbarleyverdery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.you can't i've had this problem in the past and i just went and talked to the counceler that stopped them.but i don't know how your school is like.or you can tell you friend the one they like to tell them to stop bothering you .to knock it off.......
2007-02-27 22:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by ALLWORK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋