ok so like almost 3 weeks ago I had sexual intercourse. well lately ive been well..different. Like so to say, my breasts have gotten bigger and tenderer, my mood is drastic and when im mad its like horrible, ive been peeing alot and i feel like this idk pressure on my bladder, i used to love love love ranch dressing on pizza and now i hate it, and i am really weak. I don't know what's going on. I am also 16 and I started in 6th grade, so it's not puberty.
2007-02-27 14:25:29 · 24 answers · asked by LiLHeAtHeRx09 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
im not on birth control, and i see i am 16 but i cant drive...BUT i got a job so more then likely i can get it.
2007-02-27 14:31:08 · update #1
i am also talking to my friend about it, and she said the pressure on the bladder is prolly where i am feeling bloated. and i am thinkn she is right.
2007-02-27 14:41:13 · update #2
sounds like you may be pregnant, all 3 of mine started with increased trips to the bathroom and my tummy doing really crazy things (before the morning sickness kicked in). you might begin with a trip to your school nurse or the local health dept., take your boyfriend with you if possible, so if you aren't pregnant you can discuss birth control and responsibility with an adult. if you are pregnant don't be afraid to talk to your parents (both sets), sure they will be mad but they will also want to take care of you and the baby while you are pregnant, and they can help you with options, such as adoption or keeping the baby and staying in school. don't mention this to anyone at school yet, you know how rumors are. for everyones sake i hope this is just really intense PMS for you and it will be a wake up call, enjoy the rest of your childhood, being the adult with all the responsibility is rough, even when you are married! good luck
you can also go to a crisis pregnancy center if there is one in your area, Wal-Mart preg tests aren't reliable, i had 3 that didn't show EITHER preg or not preg, and i was pregnant last year!
2007-02-27 15:10:00 · answer #1 · answered by 3agirls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 in 6th grade? Anyways you wouldnt be feeling all those symptoms even if you were pregnant, it doesn't quite happen that fast! Wait until your period is supposed to come. There would be no pressure on your bladder if you were pregnant because that is from the growing fetus and growing uterus pressing up against it, if you had intercourse 3 weeks ago the baby is basically a bunch of cells and so very very tiny. Your breasts also wouldnt start to feel tender yet either, unless you had super hormones. Maybe you are sick?
2007-02-27 22:31:56 · answer #2 · answered by divinity2408 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that you are just going through some hormonal changes, and may not be pregnant. But you should get that checked out, by either going to a clinic or getting a home pregnancy test just to make sure. If you are pregnant, good luck and even though you are still a child yourself you will be fine, just get help from those around you. If your not pregnant you should really consider getting on birth control or something so you don't have to go though this experience again. Best of luck!
2007-02-27 23:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by **Shan** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's Wrong With Premarital Sex?...
http://watchtower.org/library/g/2004/7/22a/article_01.htm
Teen Pregnancy :
- Mothers Too Soon
- A Global Tragedy
- Facing the Challenges of Teen Motherhood
- Help and Protection for Young Ones
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2007-02-28 08:44:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your sake I would hope that it's just PMS acting up, but it does sound like pregnancy. You need to tell a parent or guardian so that they can have you tested and that way if you are, you can receive proper care during the pregnancy. If you turn out not to be pregnant you should be very greatful for the second chance and think twice before putting yourself in this situation again. Having a child isn't easy at any age and the younger you are the harder it tends to be. I hope that if you are you accept responsibility for your actions and raise it or at least give it up for adoption. I don't believe in abortion.
2007-02-27 22:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you now no longer need to hear about how you shouldn't be having sexual intercourse at the age of 16 because you are about to find out why. Get a pregnancy test. If you are not pregnant then from now on until you are an adult and responsible for your own actions...keep your pants on.
2007-02-27 22:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think back to when you had sex... did you use a condom?? Are you on birth control pills, if so, did you take it that day??
Perhaps you should invest some money in a home pregnancy test and if it comes up positive, go see your dr and get a test done there for confirmation and then tell the guy you slept with that he's going to be a daddy...followed by your parents.
2007-02-27 22:29:22 · answer #7 · answered by jessicadiamond_4einc 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest going to a local drug store and purchasing a home pregnancy test. If you are too embarrased to buy one yourself ask a friend if they could purchase one for you. If you are pregnant try talking to a counselor at school. By law they can't tell your parents without your concent. It is important if you are pregnant to talk to you parents about it and ge the proper medical care for you and your baby. If you aren't pregnant chances are you probably have hte flu or some other bug which makes you lose your appetite. Another possiblity is a urinary tract infection, which you can go to your doctor to have them decide that.
2007-02-28 01:21:54 · answer #8 · answered by artisdestiny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Off hand, I would say you could be over reacting. But check with a doctor and make sure. If you are pregnant, please dont abort. You are very young in today's world but nevertheless, if pregnant,you will love your kid. If you are not pregnant, get educated fast on what happens after sex. Go to the counsellor in your church and ask for guidance.
If you find it difficult to ask mom, what would you do? Got some one you trust?
Main thing is "don't worry" History will show you many girls of your age who got pregnant, bore kids and lived lives to their fullest. It also shows many who went through apprehensions such as yours. Trust yourself and be responsible.
For always: Respect your body. It is the temple of the Holy Spirit.
2007-02-27 23:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by Hey hey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are most likely pregnant. I had all the same symptoms when I found out I was pregnant with my daughter and I was only 15. Lets hope you're not because having a child at a young age really sucks.
2007-02-28 04:26:01 · answer #10 · answered by Proud Mommy of 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋