omg they always believe my brother and hes ALWAYS the one lying!!! soooo not faiiiirrr.....bonus::: they think im into drugs (SOOO GROSE) and sex (SOOO NOT READY) why cant they freaken truse me!!!!!
2007-02-27 14:23:09 · 12 answers · asked by SavannahLoveXoXo 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Maybe you gave them a reason not to trust you.
Good luck
Ash
2007-02-27 14:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
may not be a matter of trust. maybe (and they probably wouldn't admit it) they worry more about you because you're a girl. make an "appointment" with them at a time when they will be relaxed and open to discussion.ask them if they have some reality based reason for accusing you of being involved in drugs and having sex, or if they are just worried what MIGHT happen if they did trust you. tell them if that you would like to take a drug test to clear your name. it's not fair for them to accuse with no proof and not allow you to prove they are wrong. tell them you are not having sex, you are not ready to have sex, and it hurts you that they think so little of your character. be sure to stay calm and not roll your eyes or whine- won't help your case any. good luck! :)
2007-02-27 15:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is sometime when your brother is out of the house ask your parents to sit down and talk with you. Explain to them that you feel that it is unfair that they chose to believe your brother over you. Explain to them that you do not do drugs nor have an interest to and that you are not having sex and you know that you are too young and not ready to. Ask them what you can do to make them trust you and believe you. If it comes to it even tell them youd be wiling to have a drug test to prove it.
2007-02-27 17:19:04 · answer #3 · answered by artisdestiny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem! My brother gets away with everything and he's the rebellious one. i think it has something to do with the fact that I'm a girl. They're overprotective of me. I'm not sure, but the best thing you can do is talk to them and tell them how you feel. Sorry I couldn't be more of a help.
2007-02-27 14:34:05 · answer #4 · answered by Lindsay 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because you have to earn your parents trust. You may have done something to make them feel like they cannot trust you. Parents always know when their kids are up to no good. Talk to them about what you can do to gain more trust.
2007-02-27 14:31:51 · answer #5 · answered by llllll_amanda_lllllll 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would sit down with them and tell them exactly how you feel. and tell them that you are not, and they can have you take a drug test to prove them that your brother is lying. and I would tell your brother to mind his own business and stay out of yours.
2007-02-27 15:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by misty blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its tough gaining trust back but here's how you do it in two steps. 1) do stuff they dont ask you to do. i dunno why it helps with trust i think its because they'll find you more responsible. and 2) do every little thing no matter how gay it is, do it right and they'll trust you with bigger more serious stuff. dont argue be respectful and they'll let you do whatever ya want...trust me i know its gotten me to be able to do whatever i want! goood luck
2007-02-27 14:31:10 · answer #7 · answered by wrestlerguy_07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't believe me eitherr.
&& Myy brother is soo spoiled!!
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2007-02-27 14:27:09 · answer #8 · answered by Sydney H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as a parent i trust all my kids until they give me a reason not to
have you done something to make them not trust you ??
should you be trusted?
give them reasons to trust you
2007-02-27 14:59:01 · answer #9 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's me again. Because you don't choose good friends (they talk about you behind you back).
2007-02-27 14:26:57 · answer #10 · answered by Jason P 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋