I am 54 years old and my wife is 51 years old. She loves me so much. I only like her, not love her. We been together for at least 30+ years. I never had children with her but I did made love to her since I was 28 years old. She fell shortly to a terminal accident. I told her "I love you" so many times I cannot even count. I never fell in love with her. I didn't leave her because I wouldn't have someone to have sex with and she'll be heartbroken if I did left and i would have been paying for child support if she did got pregnant... and plus, I never fell in love with her so i didn't want to be very sad if she had died. If I did fell deep in love with her, I know I will be very sad right now, but good thing I didn't fell in love with her. I can imagine myself leaving her and not being sad. I don't feel bad at all for her death. I had to pretend to be crying on her funeral to let her family think that I am sad but really, I am not sad. I don't plan to ever fall in love but will date.
2007-02-27 14:19:22 · 3 answers · asked by Salsa Dancer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh my god How can you be so cold hearted? You spent 30+ years with this woman and never felt anything for her. Why didn't you just leave her when you were young and give her the chance to be with someone who truly loved her, not like you. You are a very selfish man. You say you didn't leave her because you would have noone to have sex with, you are a silly man you could have had a great love but instead you pretended. I feel sorry for the next woman who dates you if she has to endure the same loveless relationship as your poor wife, god rest her soul.
2007-02-27 14:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So what advice do you need? You are happy that you are a widower go do what you have to do and stop pretending that you are sad that you lost her!
2007-02-27 22:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a sad pitiful soul.
2007-02-27 22:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by themom95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋