My boyfriend is 22 and has a small yet serious problem, at least he thinks so...He can get an erection, but goes soft soon after play begins, he is still horny the whole time and we can be in the middle of play and he goes soft and cannot get it hard again...or we do and it only last for a small period of time,he gets so frustrated and upset about it and i want to do what i can to help him, so what can i do or what can he do, or is it a medical issue that needs to be addressed? please help, i h8 seeing him hurt
2007-02-27 14:13:36 · 3 answers · asked by goth_gurl87 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
That can be very embarrassing and frustrating for guys. It sounds like you are very caring and compassionate, so that helps. If he is comfortable with you and still remains excited and aroused it really sounds like a medical issue. He should go see his doctor, that would at least rule out anything medical and you guys can go from there. Otherwise make sure that he's relaxed and that he knows you understand because if he is tense and worried then he is not focusing on what you guys are doing. Good luck to the both of you!
2007-02-27 17:04:47 · answer #1 · answered by Eric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should see a urologist and get checked out. There are lots of things that can cause this, either physical or mental. It can probably be fixed.
2007-02-28 00:34:00 · answer #2 · answered by marchhare57 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go let him consult a doctor...he could have erectile dysfunction
2007-02-28 09:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋