Maybe they used to care about you, but they don't anymore and you still do so much. Since I can't have this person and he doesn't want me, I wish I knew a way to stop loving him. I'm afraid that no matter what he does or who he becomes I'll always love him.
2007-02-27 14:11:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Let me know when you figure it out!!!
2007-02-27 14:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You most likely will. You've got to get back in the game and avoid him. Love is truly sad when it is not returned.
Luckily, you're allowed to love again. To someone you are the center of the universe. As you well should be. No, it will not be the same, but love doesn't have to hurt.
I wish you luck, just make sure your new guy doesn't remind you of him.
2007-02-27 14:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts to say this but the only way to stop loving someone is time. I cant give you a specific time limit because that depends on that person. One to get your mind of someone else is to try something new and put most of your focus in that. I hope this helps.
2007-02-27 14:18:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who are inlove tends to think more about the people who they love than themselves. Ive been there before and im still there now.. LOL.
My cousin gave me the best advice possible. Love yourself like you love your love one. Spend time with yourself, go to the gym, study and keep your grades up, spend time in the park or be with your friends. Keep yourself busy...
By keeping yourself busy, youre not just entertaining yourself and keeping your mind off him but you'll benefit from it by improving your social, physical and mental state. You'll eventually get over him and at the same time, you got the time to know yourself better.
2007-02-27 14:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by rhkenji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with loving someone but, if it's not returned what good is it? You can not have a relationship alone....the BRIGHT SIDE...it just means someone worthy of your love is on his way to you. When he shows you'll not only know it...it will be well worth the wait and you'll look back at todays love and wonder how you could be so stupid to think they were so hot
2007-02-27 14:17:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have same problem so what I do: I try to focus on other guy that really want something serious with me. And see what I like about him that I really want from a man. And I compare each one, See what really is convenient for me because If I am not happy I can not make anybody happy. And if he does not love you is because he is not happy with you. You do not want to be in a unhappy relationship, do you?
2007-02-27 14:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might always love him. Just try not to keep thinking about him. Keep busy doing things that you like to do and that will keep you busy. After awhile, you'll notice that you think of him less and less, then when someone else comes along you can pour all of that love onto them and they'll love you back better than he was able to.
2007-02-27 14:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you on this one. I was in love once with a girl who didn't love me back..It's been two years since i talked to her and I still have feelings for this person...It sucks big time. There is no one answer her. I found that cutting contact and time help me...I will always love this person but i'm trying not to let it control me and bring me down.
I let myself have time to heal. I talked to friends cause I was so down...and depressed cause she didn't love me back. I wanted to kill myself...but trust me ..NO ONE is worth dying for ok...
If you need someone to chat to contact me and we can talk.
2007-02-27 14:19:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a list of all of their imperfections, and why they aren't right for u. And if that doesn't work, start loving someone new.
2007-02-27 14:14:52 · answer #9 · answered by bibidygagabooboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone better, someone who likes you for who you are, make sure they really like you. The person you like now is probably really mean.
2007-02-27 14:15:02 · answer #10 · answered by Littlestar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don know
run playbook
cut loose
hang tight
stay outta sight
2007-02-27 14:14:38 · answer #11 · answered by willow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋