I had one recently... I am not that depressed or grieving too much over it, but there is still this small part of me who can't believe that there was this person who once existed. It was only a few weeks old but yet it was still a human being...
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2007-02-27 14:08:26 · 3 answers · asked by purringout 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Please accept my sincere and heartfelt condolences. I am truly sorry.
Yes, I grieved with all my heart for years over the child I didn't know I wanted - carried her for 4 1/2 months, then knew something was wrong.. found out she had died.
It was hard accepting the loss, I had realized during those 4 months that I wanted that baby so very much and had made so many hopes and dreams and plans for our future together and felt so robbed.
Everyone around me didn't seem to understand. My husband felt it almost a relief.. my mother told me I was better off because we were so young and still in college, his mother said there was probably no baby to begin with, my best friend told me it was "God's Will"... and yet I was so alone and hurt so much in my heart.
Some days I didn't know how I would take another breath... I spiraled into a deep depression... somehow, someway I crawled out... tried for 7 years to have another...
had all but given up, then, one day, I found out my miracle was on her way...
3 times they sent me home bleeding, told me to make arrangements for her, there was nothing they could do... three times I prayed, and loved and hoped and loved...
and now, I still get up in the middle of the night and pull her out from under her covers, walk over to the rocking chair and sing and rock my angel... and Thank God for each soft breath.
She's 3 and I still can't believe I have her. And, sometimes I still morn for my other daughter. As I watch this one grow, I think of all I missed with the other... but, I am thankful for this moment, for this life.
2007-02-27 14:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by Wildflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had two ectopic pregnancies and not that I grieved over them all that much because I didn't know or barely knew I was pregnant, I still think of my children that I could have had and loved with all my heart.
2007-02-27 22:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by Jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah.....i do grieve some times....had a miscarriage at 11 weeks 2 months go... :(
2007-02-27 22:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by San 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋