see friend i m back.i best friend natalie like a guy name Leon but a girl name sarah Sarah like him too.Sarah and Natalie r my best friend.Sarah and Natalie used to be greatfriendsbut now they just hate each other i tried a lots a time to get them along but it didn't work.I talked to them lots a time but still it didn't work.Now iwho sould i choose?? i have to choose one of them.Sarah or natalie!!!Who should i choose they both are nice i love both of them but i have to choose one of them.Ihave to!!god why i have to choose!!but i hate to choose one of them
2007-02-27 14:07:34 · 5 answers · asked by SweetKareena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, you don't have to choose one. Why do you think that? Did they tell you to choose between them? If so, let me tell you something, sweetie: Those aren't friends. Friends NEVER pressure one another into choosing between buddies. You care about them and love 'em, but it doesn't sound like they think the same of you. They are tremendously disrespecting you. I don't know if that's what they're asking you to do, though. DON'T think you have to choose because you don't. Tell them you're not choosing, and they should respect you enough to not make you.
2007-02-27 15:02:01 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Boys come and go; but friends are forever. Tell them that you like both of them; just alternate time between the two friends. Maybe Leon needs to date someone else to ease the tension between Sarah and Natalie.
2007-02-27 22:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't choose, tell them that if they are going to make you choose between the both of them you won't choose any as you love both of them. If they still want you to choose walk away from both of them and find people who don't force you to choose, because either way you are going to lose a good friend and it may come back to bite you in the a$$.
2007-02-27 22:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you DO NOT have to choose! you can have more then one best friend. you can spend time with one person, then spend time with the other later. if they dont like it....well to bad for them. they houldnt fight over you. if you pick some1, the other will bound to be crushed by your decison. either you hang with one of them sometimes then the other the other times, or you hang out with both. tell them to put their differences aside. if a guy likes a girl, and that is the deal they arent friends anymore then they should know,
a guy comes and goes, but a friend lasts forever...
you shouldnt choose like this..
2007-02-27 22:15:05 · answer #4 · answered by Cornelia Anabelle Banana Bo Peep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya....um.....if u choose ur making the biggest mistake of ur life. thats what they want, for u to choose one of them. if u dont choose one of them they will either
a) get over it and become friends
b) not be ur friend
thats basically it. if they both choose not to be ur friend, then they r totally missing out on a pretty cool person.
2007-02-27 22:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by brooke_xoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋